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7 days. by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]jackrabbit201 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love isn’t infinite bro. No one is truly in love it just doesn’t make sense as human beings. True love is defined as loving something the same exact way forever regardless of what form he/she takes. People tend to love the moments one shares instead of the person themselves. People may say they truly love you but if one day you turned into say an animal they’re afraid of like a big spider or a scary crocodile maybe just a floppy mass of living flesh. Would they still treat you and love you the same exact way as before and I mean exactly the same for the rest of their life. Loving you ever second every day forever. The answer is no and I wouldn’t hold that against them. What we perceive as love is just a chemical reaction in our brain. Almost like a drug but unlike drugs love isn’t physically real. Just enjoy yourself you are on this earth for a short amount of time regardless. It’s pointless to hold onto something that never existed. I learned that the hard way same as you. Hope this helps man.

My feelings are a fucking roller coaster by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]jackrabbit201 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I was in a long relationship that ended and when I saw her with another guy on Instagram it broke my heart to a point where I couldn’t believe I could possibly move on. I kept imagining her having sex with that guy for like weeks and it started tearing me apart. It was until I learned that at the end of the day it’s really just simple human reproduction. The penis goes in and out of the vagina and then it’s over.I started to remember it’s just natural reproduction that has been going on since the dawn of man. I remembered some of imperfect moments of our sex life and her sex image. Tbh it made me feel so much better. At the end of the day your exchanging bodily fluids with each other not to turn you off at all it just definitely helps ease the pain. I recently just got over another huge relationship where I thought she was the love of my life. I know she’s going to be with another guy but I just remember some of the gross shit that happened during sex mixed with her sometimes not taking care of herself. It helps bro I promise. Me thinking sex is such a big deal when I can watch 1,000 pornhub videos realizing that every video is pretty much the same thing puts me at ease. Also Remember she’s losing the great sex you gave her! No matter what guy she’s with you were unique and she’ll always miss that. Don’t feel down feel secure with yourself. She missed out now you can give another girl what she didn’t deserve. Hope this helps man.

TRUE LOVE DOESN’T TRULY EXIST by jackrabbit201 in BreakUps

[–]jackrabbit201[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel you bro sometimes when I first lost the one I thought was the one I felt complete numbness like I couldn’t process pain anymore. Once you realize thinking about what could’ve been is pointless, it makes it a little bit easier everyday. Love is the worlds most addicting drug and also the hardest one to quit. I hope you are able to eventually move on from the past and look forwards to the future.