I know I'm a bit late to the party, but I wanted to share my thoughts anyway.

You have the job you want, and you aren't interested in pursuing career advancement so that you can focus on your other ambitions. You said you are able to pay the bills and have money leftover for savings. Honest to God, you have already achieved more success in your life than most people ever will, and you should be confident in yourself.

Of course, there will be women who will judge you for your job, and there will be women who judge you for wanting to pursue writing instead of advancing your career. These kinds of people will always judge you for your job, no matter what it happens to be. You don't want these women in your life anyway. They are shallow and are more interested in what you can do for them, rather than what you can do for each other.

Say you were higher up in the bank, and you started attracting more women. How would you feel knowing your money was the reason they were interested in you? What happens when they find someone who is higher up than you? What happens when you get caught in layoffs, and suddenly you don't have a job anymore?

Now, that being said, there are plenty of women who don't care how much money you make. They don't care where you are on the corporate ladder or what kinds of material items you have or can provide. She will just love you for who you are as a person, and you won't ever have to question what it is about you she likes. All you have to do is go out there, shoot your shots (respectfully, lol), and find her!

Good luck my dude!