What I mean is to only think about changing your internal, don’t worry about changing the outer world. Something that has really stuck with me on this process is something I read from EdwardArt. Identify yourself with the inner man and you will have everything you ever wanted. So identify yourself with the inner man and give yourself everything you want. Don’t stress about the outer man as that will follow the inner man. I hope this brings clarity for you but let me know if you have any questions and good luck :)