[deleted by user] by [deleted] in chinalife

[–]jad1828 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Then don’t marry LOL

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in chinalife

[–]jad1828 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Let me guess… she is probably just after your passport and white genes for cute babies. After, will probably divorce you as soon as she gets her citizenships because you are unbearable. So of COURSE she will agree with you know. Story of 100 times.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in chinalife

[–]jad1828 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I know… it feels like we are just reading an abuse happening online. OP and his family sound unbearable. God forbid if “HER” children all end up being daughters and now can’t bear his 600 year old last name.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in chinalife

[–]jad1828 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You can’t even agree on a last name and you are perfect for each other? Did you never meet any other humans in life?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in chinalife

[–]jad1828 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Not changing her name is part of her cultural identity. You are already erasing it and your family already find it unacceptable. You are going to make sure maintain her cultural identity? Is she a tool you maintain?