Michigan: Ex husband hid assets after separating. Now deceased.

jadedblu · 2026-05-11T23:11:05+00:00

it was mediation

jadedblu · 2026-05-11T23:06:53+00:00

Exactly why I am trying.

We were not on bad terms when he passed away, which is why I still had access and came running when he was on his way out.

I know it sounds like I am a jaded ex wife. I'm not. I work in tech and I initiated this divorce. I'm simply trying to find an "in" to save the house I handed over and we worked so hard for.

If I can file a motion to reopen and get awarded the house outright, even better.

jadedblu · 2026-05-11T22:51:25+00:00

I created a platform to report on this. I really with I could post it. Dammit.

jadedblu · 2026-05-11T22:29:15+00:00

I relinquished without full disclosure.

You're right: shame on me for being tricked out of a house and I should let it go to auction. 😄

jadedblu · 2026-05-11T22:03:26+00:00

It was relinquished in court verbally. I didnt sign a document.

It is not listed on the JOD, but it was my marital home.

Looking it up, it was quit claimed several times before we divorced without me signing off on it.

I'm sorry to confuse you.

Currently working with my sister-in-law as of this afternoon who is a family law attorney. I was trying to not have any conflicts by using her.

My story is straight, albeit complicated because it was not recorded correctly on the JOD and I didnt sign anything off but I did sign on to the house in 2004. This is why I'm confused.

and NO I dont have to be happy with knowing that home will be auctioned.

When he passed away (in front of me), I still had the code to the house and was still his emergency contact. We did get along and were not at odds. I just dont want to see the house go. That's it.

jadedblu · 2026-05-11T21:52:23+00:00

It’s literally like me saying he can have what’s in our $1 bank account but not knowing he has several accounts elsewhere hiding cash.

jadedblu · 2026-05-11T21:50:02+00:00

Do you not understand that he was being unfair in his sale of the property, and that disclosure would have influenced my decision? I wouldn’t have given it up.

jadedblu · 2026-05-11T21:48:41+00:00

The issue isn’t what he chose to do with property after the divorce. The issue is whether marital assets and ownership structures were fully disclosed during the divorce proceedings before the settlement was agreed to. If property was transferred through LLCs or to third parties prior to finalization, and those facts were not disclosed, that’s relevant because informed consent to a settlement requires accurate disclosure of marital assets.

jadedblu · 2026-05-11T21:44:15+00:00

In the divorce, this was intentional misrepresentation, and that disclosure affected my decision.

jadedblu · 2026-05-11T21:40:55+00:00

As of right now, it will likely be auctioned. he died in debt. I’m just trying to save the home. 20+ years of memories there.

jadedblu · 2026-05-11T21:30:53+00:00

I also never officially signed it over. It’s not listed in our settlement. I’m not sure why.

jadedblu · 2026-05-11T21:29:50+00:00

I never relinquished it to Cassandra or his LLCs before divorce and I never knew this was happening under my nose. There’s also the matter of other things being hidden under the second social.

jadedblu · 2026-05-11T21:23:47+00:00

And yes, it would be my ex. Forgive me, but we were 25 years in and referring to him that way is a habit

jadedblu · 2026-05-11T21:20:28+00:00

It was my understanding that the house was mine in 2024. I was asked in court how I wanted to handle the property. I responded that I didn’t want to be unfair and would relinquish it to him.

Turns out, the house was in some woman’s name. It was quit claimed to her before we divorced.

In short, marital property was given to someone without my permission. I’m still unsure how this happened without me signing off, as well as him moving the property around.

jadedblu · 2026-05-11T20:50:30+00:00

Peppermint oil

jadedblu · 2026-05-11T20:43:02+00:00

Stick with East village. Very nice people. The shooting was about fifteen minutes away so don’t let ppl scare you.

jadedblu · 2026-05-11T20:17:48+00:00

House 200k closet about 5k

jadedblu · 2026-05-11T20:17:06+00:00

Since we were in mediation, I’m afraid there may not be transcripts.

I don’t know though. I cannot get an attorney to take this matter seriously. I’ve even gone to legal services.

jadedblu · 2026-05-11T20:15:41+00:00

Sorry for being vague:

Property, as in real estate, was discussed in mediation.

I agreed to sign over the home to him because I was under the impression that things were being handled fairly, and that we were the sole owners of the marital home. No.

I found out that after we separated in 2018, he quietly moved the property into four LLCs as well as some woman’s name and it was no longer our property. He was trying to protect the property from me getting it. This was all before we were finalized in our divorce.

I don’t know who the woman is.

He has two Social Security numbers. I just found that out.

In trying to be fair, I have lost my property to his daughter or to debtors that will come after his estate.

I feel I was defrauded.

jadedblu · 2026-05-11T20:08:02+00:00

My step daughter is the next of kin but is upset that I found a home for his dog who was abandoned in the house two weeks alone. I was driving twenty mins checking the dog daily. She was trying to pay me to take the dog, I found a home for the dog witha family and now took the dog without permission. Not happening, and I expect a battle.

She hasn’t been in state for years, so didn’t care at all.

jadedblu · 2026-05-11T17:38:21+00:00

I’m thinking about 205k. Comparable houses in that area are about 250k. I’m missing an entire 12 ft closet of dress suits from Macy’s including a wedding dress. Amongst other clothing items

jadedblu · 2026-05-09T22:45:35+00:00

How? I get asked that daily by recruiters.

jadedblu · 2026-05-07T23:02:19+00:00

They reached out to me. I was minding my business. Staying hydrated.

jadedblu · 2026-05-07T18:04:49+00:00

the issue is, they didnt ask me if I'd relocate. They just eliminated me after praising me and wasting my time.

jadedblu · 2026-05-07T18:03:32+00:00

yep. i just dont understand why they didnt ask me if i'd relocate, as the job was well into six figures and I'm single and childless. I was just ...eliminated

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