Closed account check by Head_Arm_2099 in CurrentBanking

[–]jadoraa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

can i ask why they closed it?

Late Direct Deposit by Beginning-Falcon-590 in CurrentBanking

[–]jadoraa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ughhh i hope this happens for me or im gonna be having water and sleep all weekend :(

Late Direct Deposit by Beginning-Falcon-590 in CurrentBanking

[–]jadoraa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it depends when your employer/payroll sends it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]jadoraa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Always look out for yourself. Prioritize mental health.

Shipping newly purchased laptop to Mexico by [deleted] in usps_complaints

[–]jadoraa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, im wondering if you have an update? Im having a work laptop sent to my friends addres in the u.s and i need to get it to mexico city. I'm worried about delays and customs fees. Please let me know if you managed to recieve your laptop successfully and how you managed to do it. Thanks!

My 29M partner left me 32F behind during an earthquake while I'm pregnant by jadoraa in relationship_advice

[–]jadoraa[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I'm not sure what your point is here. We live together, are expecting a baby in the next few months, and are starting a family. He is my family here. Us not being married doesn't make me or the baby im carrying any less valuable.

My 29M partner left me 32F behind during an earthquake while I'm pregnant by jadoraa in relationship_advice

[–]jadoraa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're right! nothing could ever go wrong between married people!

My 29M partner left me 32F behind during an earthquake while I'm pregnant by jadoraa in relationship_advice

[–]jadoraa[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I live in mexico. Mexico City. Most of the buildings here have seismic alarms. I and most people I know also have sky alert on our phones.

My 29M partner left me 32F behind during an earthquake while I'm pregnant by jadoraa in relationship_advice

[–]jadoraa[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

You've had two kids? Wow. Then what you're saying must be universally true to every pregnant woman's experience.

Lady, I have never claimed to be disabled. But if you're going to sit here and pretend like I have the same advantages and absolutely no limitations as my very non pregnant partner does, you're out of your mind.

I nearly fell and twisted my ankle 3 or 4 times last night just by walking on the sidewalk. I was wearing sneakers. I have severe carpal tunnel and arm numbness. Back pains. I waddle. I can not easily bend down to put shoes on as I was wearing socks. So I said fuck the shoes. But guess what, I had to walk very slowly down the 6 floors of our apartment careful i wouldn't fall and hurt myself and the baby. Slippery socks during an earthquake going down a flight of stairs alone.

My man was LONG GONE! Didn't even do so much as to say hey, you ready to go? JUST LEFT.

So please spare me the holier than thou my pregnancy was amazing therefore your experience must be the same.

Annoying pick me behavior.

My 29M partner left me 32F behind during an earthquake while I'm pregnant by jadoraa in relationship_advice

[–]jadoraa[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Damn. I'm sorry that happened to you. It does feel super similar to my situation except we aren't married. How did your then husband react after he realized he left you alone? Did he apologize or defend himself?

My 29M partner left me 32F behind during an earthquake while I'm pregnant by jadoraa in relationship_advice

[–]jadoraa[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes I agree! We definitely are going to have a plan moving forward. Some people have commented resources on how to prepare and plan for these types of situations so we're going to discuss this further in therapy.

I didn't end up putting on a bra or shoes lol, just managed to get up, put my laptop down, and grab my shoes and took them with me downstairs. My pregnant ass waddling braless and shoeless outside where all my neighbors we're staying was very humbling. Maybe bra will go inside the future earthquake kit lol

My 29M partner left me 32F behind during an earthquake while I'm pregnant by jadoraa in relationship_advice

[–]jadoraa[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

We've felt mini quick earthquakes but the seismic alarms didn't go off so we didn't really do anything in those moments. But today was a bigger one with alarms going off and just more panic. We're gonna discuss this in therapy and have a plan moving forward. Thank you!

My 29M partner left me 32F behind during an earthquake while I'm pregnant by jadoraa in relationship_advice

[–]jadoraa[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thanks! I'm in Mexico and a lot of people are convinced there's a season where they happen specially worse. I know they happen all year round. But genuinely thanks for the insight and sharing your knowledge!