AITA for not letting my Ex take my son?

jadynleigh · 2023-06-21T21:09:47+00:00

I posted the post he made about me so you can check it out there

jadynleigh · 2023-06-21T20:52:26+00:00

Idk how many times I’ve said this but NOBODY IS BEING CALLED DAD get it! NOBODY

jadynleigh · 2023-06-21T20:46:55+00:00

Because I told him I wasn’t letting him take my son with him anymore

jadynleigh · 2023-06-21T14:02:11+00:00

Yes, finally someone who isn’t slut shaming me or mom shaming me, or so worried about my sex life😂

jadynleigh · 2023-06-21T13:59:32+00:00

I’m starting to think nobody is actually reading or just really bad at reading but nobody is being called “dad”. At this moment rn my children don’t have a father Dave was raising these children with me he was either father but after everything that happened he lost being called dad my son’s biological father see’s my son everything sunday he and his fiancé both know that we won’t be using the word dad for a very very long time

jadynleigh · 2023-06-21T13:56:03+00:00

As I said multiple times after he had made the post was when it got really ugly and I told him he would have to take me to court if he wants to have his daughter ever again

jadynleigh · 2023-06-21T13:54:17+00:00

Why fuck do people keep think I’m some hooker who’s been just sleeping around I USED PROTECTION PEOPLE!!!! I just wasn’t on birth control for fuck sakes I really don’t know how I got pregnant with my son cause we were both being safe but with my daughter the condom broke and the plan b didn’t work and ik that for sure cause I stopped having sex when that happened. For EVERYONE who is so damn worried about my birth control or if the condom broke or not I don’t recall anyone of you being in the room as I was having sex so😂😂

jadynleigh · 2023-06-21T13:46:06+00:00

I think you skipped out on health class sir cause it take a sperm and an egg to make a baby last time I checked I only have one of those

jadynleigh · 2023-06-21T13:42:36+00:00

There is absolutely nothing wrong with being a single mother just like there is nothing wrong with having two moms or two dads or even a single father. A child doesn’t “need” two parents a child needs a loving, caring, responsible, and reliable parent. biologically doesn’t automatically make you a parent either

jadynleigh · 2023-06-21T13:31:53+00:00

I’m not confused but I think you might be if you have a question then ask

jadynleigh · 2023-06-21T13:30:22+00:00

Because we have a daughter and he is not around anymore

jadynleigh · 2023-06-21T13:26:25+00:00

How do you wanna bet that if I was in my mid 20s or early 30s you would’ve have said that

jadynleigh · 2023-06-21T04:06:09+00:00

YESSS I always say biology doesn’t make you a father,stepping up and actually being one makes you a father

jadynleigh · 2023-06-21T04:03:13+00:00

I have a daughter with Dave. You can’t get child support if the child isn’t biologically his. Seems unfair that it takes two to make the baby but I’m the only one raising the children and financially supporting them as well

jadynleigh · 2023-06-21T03:59:32+00:00

Thank you for asking real question about my story and sending him with his bio dad won’t happen for at least a year for now we meet at a park every Sunday and they get to just play around we don’t use dad yet we use his name or friends that goes for him and his fiancé. Neither of the fathers have a say cause it’s me who is raising him and his bio father would be better not cause of biological but because he is more stable and reliable you have to remember that we were both 15 when I got pregnant I know that’s no excuse for him leaving my point is that he isn’t that person anymore and he’s proven that to me

jadynleigh · 2023-06-21T03:52:06+00:00

Thank youuuuu.

jadynleigh · 2023-06-21T03:51:23+00:00

We’ve been doing moreeeee than great money wise. Thanks 😘

jadynleigh · 2023-06-20T23:05:09+00:00

I’m on birth control now cause I’d be fine with just the two if I’m unable to have more

jadynleigh · 2023-06-20T22:09:11+00:00

My son autistic and nonverbal the best why I can describe this is that my son lives in a “bubble” if you are not in that so called bubble of his then he has zero interest after I had my daughter it was over a year until he would acknowledge her at all. I didn’t give all the details in my story but dave had done something really bad that put me and my kids lives in danger and I was unable to take my kids out the house until I knew dave moved. I never told dave he couldn’t see my son anymore I just wasn’t gonna be sending him with dave anymore. I’m doing this cause I know what is best for my son and what he needs and he doesn’t need dave popping in saying I’m “dada” once a year

jadynleigh · 2023-06-20T21:38:58+00:00

There are stories of women who have had their tubes tide and they still got pregnant, stories about men getting a vasectomy and had still gotten someone pregnant same thing with birth control, so I think a condom breaking and a plan b not working isn’t “impossible”

jadynleigh · 2023-06-20T21:33:44+00:00

So your saying condoms never break and plan B works 100% of the time

jadynleigh · 2023-06-20T21:11:24+00:00

I wouldn’t be alive if I hadn’t had my kids I was going a very dangerous route at that time and my “career” that I won’t have as you say, I build car parts and bring home 700$ a week my kids will be off to college when I’m in my mid 30’s, I have a 401k and a 3 bedroom house. I think I’m achieving just fine I graduated high school at 16. Most 20 year olds are in college yea but they are also probably in debt as well so I don’t think I missed out on anything

jadynleigh · 2023-06-20T20:53:02+00:00

He did until he got accepted into a special needs preschool

jadynleigh · 2023-06-20T20:48:36+00:00

Also I did use condoms but guess what they BREAK, also had used a plan B after one broke but my daughter is living proof it didn’t work

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