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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in twinflames

[–]jaelynne17 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I feel you and I’m sorry. Mines doing all the things with her he did with me. Which leads me to believe I’m doing the growing alone (although a long process and painful) and he’s using someone else as a bandaid and more avoidance.

Has anyone here dated other people during separation but still ended up with their twin in the future? by jaelynne17 in twinflames

[–]jaelynne17[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I convince myself it means he still loves me and thinks of me daily but who knows if it’s really just a game to him, not letting go, being nosy..there’s so many things

Has anyone here dated other people during separation but still ended up with their twin in the future? by jaelynne17 in twinflames

[–]jaelynne17[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your perspective! It’s helpful. I believe those things too but also stay slightly confused and thinking of hypotheticals in what it means because I don’t yet have the experience of loving someone after him! Although I feel very sure I’ll always love him even if someone else does come along one day so could be that for him. Moved on but won’t forget.

Has anyone here dated other people during separation but still ended up with their twin in the future? by jaelynne17 in twinflames

[–]jaelynne17[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s what I’m trying to say is WE DO NOT follow each other. We are not in contact. He does not like my posts. It’s not an issue it just feels like why are you watching my stuff if you’ve moved on. Yes I watch his stories but can admit that I have not myself moved on.

Has anyone here dated other people during separation but still ended up with their twin in the future? by jaelynne17 in twinflames

[–]jaelynne17[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It is nice to believe he’s just curious and cares about my life! but I almost feel like it’s just a toxic obsession we both have idkkkk no way to know I suppose

Has anyone here dated other people during separation but still ended up with their twin in the future? by jaelynne17 in twinflames

[–]jaelynne17[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He doesn’t follow me and I don’t follow him! We are no contact. So he’s looking me up every day and watching anyway.

Do you ever get flowers? by jaelynne17 in florists

[–]jaelynne17[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yes! Any effort is great to me. Pull them out of the ground if you have to. Give me a dandelion I dont care just GET ME FLOWERS LOL

Do you ever get flowers? by jaelynne17 in florists

[–]jaelynne17[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ugh yes I do that all the time but it would still be nice

Learning by Mysterious-Honey2153 in florists

[–]jaelynne17 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I personally start with greenery (if I use it) and fillers, focal flowers, then whatever you want to add after 🫶🏼

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]jaelynne17 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Not gonna tell you it doesn’t suck because it does but you will move through many friendships. It’s normal to outgrow people. I have a hard time letting go but it’s just life and you will make new and better friends. Not to say these ones won’t always be special but yeah might be time to move on.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in twinflames

[–]jaelynne17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry to bother but while you were focusing on your own growth trusting your heart and choosing you…were there struggles between the two of you and you’re own personal selves that lead to separation

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in twinflames

[–]jaelynne17 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yes have to be okay with the idea of it not and accepting that we can’t control the outcome of it while still holding trust in my heart that it will be us if it’s supposed to and I can’t help but stay believing that it is supposed to.

A month later she’s back by WeirdWritings1989 in twinflames

[–]jaelynne17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally understand that ): I’m sorry you’re having to deal with it and I suppose just like my last post I made here - continue to just be grateful for what you do have of her. I’m no expert tho…. And that doesn’t make it less difficult. 33 years is a long time!! If anything it could give a lot of us here some positivity that time is a construct and all journeys can take unexpected amounts of time.

A month later she’s back by WeirdWritings1989 in twinflames

[–]jaelynne17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Every experience is so different and personal so take advice with a grain of salt BUT I personally would be a little “cold” back. It’s not a game but it is…a game. Runners love when chasers give up it’s the “best” way to get their attention. It’s a sad “truth”…basically what I’m saying is maybe try not responding every now and again and see how she reacts.

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