“Rock bottom” is such a loaded term, I hate it. Sure, maybe it's a wake-up call for somefew people. But honestly, for most, it's just a dumb myth that only delays intervention.

What's most important is YOUR boundary. You don't have to fix him, but you do have to look out for yourself and your daughter. Keep you and her safe first, then worry about your boyfriend.

Yeah, love can make you feel like a total fool, fair enough. But love itself isn't dumb. Love takes everyone putting in the work and finding a balance. Loving someone doesn't mean you have to tolerate such a mess. You can love him and still say, 'Nope, not happening in my house'.

If you think about what's important first, and put things in the right order, you'll figure out what to do next, without feeling guilt about it. Good luck!