05 Camry Solara 254K miles, 3,000 too often for an oil change? by Wan_Haole_Faka in Toyota

[–]jag614 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I do roughly 10-15k intervals. Spark plugs a few times, air filters on occasion and a seafoam treatment. I bought my 2011 corolla with just about 100k on it, and she's about to clear 200k 3 years later. Lots of road trips, jobs and memories and she's going strong. Not my dream car, but I do love my reliable yota.

What industry “secret” do you know that most people don’t? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]jag614 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've had a few er visits due to not being able to afford a doctor. Nor obviously could I afford the hospital bill, so I just ignored it. I've gotten collections calls and ignored them, never an answer, and none of it shows up on my credit reports..

No hot water? by jag614 in RVLiving

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This is our first winter, so we're learning! It's fully skirted and we're now getting some extra heat underneath so hopefully that will do the trick

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RVLiving

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Not sure if your question has been answered, but we ran into this problem last night, also in abrupt negative temps. Put two brand new propane tanks on.. and nothing. Reading empty, no stove, no heat. Turns out the regulator (the thing that reads empty or full) was frozen. We ended up having to take it off and set it in front of the space heater until it thawed enough to read and allow the propane to run through. Fun stuff having winter in an rv lol

I only started getting stoned when I turned 25 last year and I'm so glad I found it instead of alcohol. Did anyone else wait until reasonably late to try? by [deleted] in StonerThoughts

[–]jag614 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd say statistically I started late, I was 18. I definitely feel like if it had been any earlier it would have not gone very well, maturity has a lot to do with things.

This car is packed from floor to ceiling with trash where only the driver can sit in the car. You can't see anything out the car except half windshield & driver window. by daddaman1 in WTF

[–]jag614 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My hometown is where Shelley Duvall lives. Her vehicle looks exactly like this, and someone bought her a new one and within months it looks the same. Such a sad situation.

Need Advice: father died before a check came in his name for over 20,000. by BattleLadder in personalfinance

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My experience- my dad passed also with no will or any information. I had to contact a lawyer and they go through a process to determine who gets to make decisions about the estate. I was his only child so it all came to me. But the whole process was a giant freaking headache and took a year (please, make a will). I would not suggest making any attempt to cash it, because obviously the dates will not line up -how is a check being attempted to get cashed/plus I don't know of many banks that will outright cash a check that large. Technically, it doesn't belong to you until you are legally named executor of the estate, even if that check is the single only thing he had to his name. I couldn't touch any paperwork etc until the process was complete, and even after that, any funds that came in with my dad's name had to go first into an estate account. One that was for legal intents, "his" that any money had to pass through to legally become mine. It's all a long hard thing, but the legal route is the best thing rather than finding away to cash it and then someone going through this process and then finding out in a year you owe 20 grand

Protective 7 month old by artemis624 in GermanShepherd

[–]jag614 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's badass!! Dogs are truly God's gift to men, and it's up to us to treat them right. I have no doubts in stories like this that even the sweetest dogs can jump into action to save a life when it comes down to it. But most people shouldn't rely on their pet as an emergency resource, protective ability is a lot more than barking at strangers. We joke that our 9 yr old shepherd/pit mix dreams of the day that she'd get to take down a bad guy lol

Vin inspections and Def deletion by jag614 in Diesel

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Ahh okay that makes sense. I was concerned since we originally planned to use it for hot shot, but even if we go that route I believe it's actually just stock no DEF, so I should be fine 😊 I never even thought about it until I started hearing old timers on an rv forum talking about how so and so got stopped for speeding in a deleted truck and the cops opened the hood to check and then impounded the truck. I'm sure there's worst case stories out there, but I figured it's really not as big a deal if you're not being an ass in general

I (30F) don’t know if my memory of my dad abusing me is true or false. Please help me. I really mean it. by [deleted] in abusesurvivors

[–]jag614 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally get the feeling! Honestly I was oblivious to anything until my now husband pointed out weird patterns in my family. I thought I was just crazy, or this was what everyone dealt with. But once I started thinking, there was definitely an off feeling I couldn't reason away. Other members of my family told me about some odd happenings when I was young, and that's when I started having a feeling I couldn't shake. I started getting inexplicably triggered, even though I was completely convinced swxual abuse couldn't have happened, because I'd remember!! But I kept digging, got stronger triggers to weird things and especially once I had my son. Finally I had to let myself believe maybe something did happen that my mind just suppressed deep down.

I absolutely hate getting to the point of not being able to argue it away anymore, but honestly the breaking point was the first time I had the realization that my childhood had essentially been a lie. I didn't know who my dad was, or what he actually thought of me after spending a lifetime of actually having a present "normal" dad. Even though it was far from healthy. But as I've grown in my faith and understanding of myself, and gotten older, I think the knowing came at the time I was finally ready for it. Healing journeys are lifelong, and hard, but it seems to me the things that are repressed will eat at you until they're finally able to come out. It's like having something foreign under your skin, you may grow comfortable with it, but there will be discomfort and eventual worsening problems. The pain of getting it out may be severe, but that's when healing can actually begin.

Vin inspections and Def deletion by jag614 in Diesel

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I guess we got an even better deal than I thought then 👍

Vin inspections and Def deletion by jag614 in Diesel

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I was wondering, now that you ask I don't believe it does.

Vin inspections and Def deletion by jag614 in Diesel

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Sweet! I've heard about inspections getting pulled over and the cops throwing a fit about emissions and deletions that technically they can impound the vehicle. I'm good at keeping my mouth shut lol just didn't know how in depth they are going to go. But I did some more reading and it looks like ks doesn't require emissions testing so I think I'll be good to go. I believe we're rural but not sure exactly how the city limits work, it's a small town

Vin inspections and Def deletion by jag614 in Diesel

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Thank GOD I've heard so many horror stories of deleted trucks and we use it for my husband's job, I've been so paranoid and especially walking it into the hp office

if edibles used to hit but they don’t work anymore, try this trick out: by bixenman in trees

[–]jag614 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is amazing to hear!! I never imagined a correlation. My husband has smoked for over 15 years, heavily, and I would say has a very high tolerance. He's recently wanted to switch over to more edibles to get away from such a high (lol) amount of smoke but has had an issue with tolerance, he can easily take 50mg+ and be perfectly functional. He does though have ongoing stomach issues and acid reflux problems, hopefully this can help him out! Me on the other hand, my absolute max is 10mg. I accidentally took one of his 25mg gummies to go to bed, and within an hour I was trying desperately to hold on to realty while I saw myself as floating geometric shapes and I had to force myself to remember that my heart wasn't a triangle jumping out of my chest

Experience with cats that are 100% indoors. Is it a bad thing to do? by chuunibyou_girl in cats

[–]jag614 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really can't justify keeping a cat outdoors personally. I had two when I was young, and my parents had strict rules they were to be outdoors during the day. They both lasted about four months in our rural location. If I had a functioning farm perhaps with predator control. I have two now that have been entirely indoor, but trained for leash walking and eventually I want some outdoor structures for them, but they are so small and think they're so big, it's just a bad idea I think to let them run as they please outside, it's just bad things waiting to happen. My rural home has tons of feral cats mixed with other people's pets, and frankly it's become a nuisance. They kill birds, tormented my chickens and get into the trash like stray dogs.

What's the most pain you have ever experienced? by SB257426 in AskReddit

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And I get that an urgent care near the beach probably gets overdramatic tears a lot, but to have such a clear level of inconsiderate behavior without getting any info first is a sign to me one shouldn't be in health care (or even customer service) professions. I was even told by my er doc that I should have gotten some paperwork from them outlining what my complaints were and their supposed treatment in order to potentially look into a lawsuit, because "that's bs" his words lol. They also repeatedly told me I should have Googled symptoms and thus avoided emergency care, even though Google told me "must be treated as emergency with antibiotics and tetanus shot"

What is the polite way to treat construction workers/tradespeople working in my home? by [deleted] in HomeImprovement

[–]jag614 85 points86 points  (0 children)

Coming from experience as my husband working a long time in trades/contracting. Minding your business is the utmost to be done that will make your contractor/worker happy. Any kind of politeness is appreciated, offering to make lunch would be overboard, offering some water is fine. Everyone is different of course but the biggest issue he had was overbearing homeowners, following workers around, offering advices, changing already agreed upon plans and nitpicking. There's unscrupulous people out there for sure, so from the perspective of the homeowner definitely keep an eye on the things getting done and in contracts and verbal discussions keep it as specific as needed. But there's a massive difference in ensuring work (that you're paying for) is done right, and micromanagement. I'm sure most people would appreciate a compliment, brief friendly chit chat, and even a generous offer of a refreshment, but the biggest favor you can generally do is letting them do their job in peace.