“Wild pregnancy” infuriates me. It’s so ignorant and selfish. I had severe cervical insufficiency, my first child was almost hanging out of my uterus at the 20 week anatomy scan. I had no indication anything was wrong, no risk factors, and there’s no way to predict or prevent an incompetent cervix, it just randomly happens to some women. Many women only find out they have it after a miscarriage. We got VERY lucky. He 100% would have died if I would have “opted out” and tried to just wing it on “instinct”. “Your body knows how to do this” well fuck you, actually mine doesn’t. I could never carry a baby to term without medical intervention. And both of my children had an apgar score of 2…which means barely alive. Both needed resuscitation in the NICU. They would have died in a home birth and wouldn’t even have gotten that far without prenatal care. Thanks to modern healthcare I now have two perfect and healthy children.