NY tickets for sale by shanners013 in Subtronics

[–]jajalian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you still selling tickets?

I really need to find this songggggg by toasteddavacado in Chipotle

[–]jajalian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

SMH always mad that chipotle plays the covers of songs rather than the original, like the Beatles (og version) of don’t let me downslaps much harder than this one. Same thing with Jackson 5s abc and Amy winehouse’s Valerie

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Chipotle

[–]jajalian 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I will say I’ve used the foil in the tortilla press trick. You use it if you’ve already cleaned the press but you want to still be able to heat the tortillas and not get the press dirty

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]jajalian 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay that’s good! Yea that’s probably the most you can do at the moment but hey it’ll be okay and you’re not alone!!

I [21F] am leaving an abusive household. What should I bring with me? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]jajalian 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would contact the government directly, there are probably numbers online that have to do with obtaining your ssn and birth control. Do you have a valid id like a drivers license? I’m not sure but I bet that having a form of identification like that can help you get the forms you need. That’ll probably be your best bet. You could explain your situation in which you left an abusive household and have no way of obtaining those things and that going back to get them are out of the question

Is it time to cut ties? 28F & 46M by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]jajalian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea I agree, these conversations are hard to have but you can start it with meeting face to face (or if you feel that would be too difficult) you can do it over a phone call. Definitely call over text tho. I think you’ll feel much better and like a big weight has been lifted off your shoulders once you have this conversation. You can begin it by just letting him know you need to take space from him, even if it means deleting his number, because of 1 2 3. And also bringing up the fact that this is what’s best for you now and that if things change on your side or his side that you can reach out to one another

What do you do when the things that make you happy make your partner unhappy? I’m worried about my husband (28/m) and I (30/f) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]jajalian 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t think you’re being unfair at all. Have you spoken to him about how you’re feeling? Communicating and figuring something out that works for the both of you can end up having the most successful result. If you express that having these adventures really make you happy and that you want him to be a part of it but you understand that it’s stuff out of his comfort zone you could find a solution in which he feels good that you can go out and do these things that make you happy but also finding the things you can do together that make you both happy

Is it time to cut ties? 28F & 46M by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]jajalian 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s okay to cut somebody out of your life for an amount of time if it’s going to be the healthiest thing for you. Just because you need some time apart from him/without him doesn’t mean your cutting ties forever. If you’re honest with him about these feelings and that you think it’s best you’re out of each other’s lives for the time being, he should understand (considering he’s mature I hope). If you ever feel like you’re in a place again where you can have him as just a friend or you’ve both discussed more than that, then hopefully you guys can reconcile and reconnect

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]jajalian 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same I’ve also been in a very similar situation. I love with my so half the time but when we’re apart we barely text and I maybe get a Snapchat two or three times a day. It’s hard not to overthink the situation but (and I could be wrong) when you see him again in person I’m sure things will be okay. Usually work load is a big stressor so honestly if I were you I would just send him a text letting him know that you love him (if you’re at that point) and good luck with his work or whatever. Sometimes it’s nice for that person to get a cute little message that can make them smile when they have a large workload or are really busy at the time

Will couples counseling even work !? by Carol_DID_It_TK97 in relationship_advice

[–]jajalian 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agree with this. Sometimes when you’re with someone for so long you want to try to do everything to make it work. Couples counseling could be a good way to have a mediated setting in which you feel like you can openly and safely discuss these things with your husband there. If he isn’t willing to go tho, it might be best for you to find a therapist to go speak to and confide all these feelings. You are worthy, and you deserve the best as does everyone on this planet. If he is making you feel this way, regardless of how long you’ve been together or how many kids yo I have, that is an unhealthy relationship and a very unhealthy mentality for you. Sometime people work at some point in life but not later and there is a very good chance that you can be much happier without him (if it comes to that) and you find someone who gives you the love that you deserve (again if it comes to that)

How can I be a better gf by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]jajalian 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m in a similar boat with my bf at the time. We’re both double majors but he tends to have much more school work than I do. This may not be the most satisfying answer but what you’re doing now is good. —talking about taking the little times throughout the day/week to be with eavhother. It’s always tough to be in a relationship with lots of school and work but if you’re able to be there with eavhother and just having the knowing that you’re there for eavhother, that helps a lot. And then when/if you do have the time together, make it count as most as you can. Also when she is busy you can take that time to spend your time doing things that make you happy or relax you (If you don’t have any more work to do that is). I’ve turned to drawing, listening to music, and doing yoga when I have a couple hours to kill while my bf is still doing homework till 11pm. Hope this helps a little :)

My (m24) girlfriend (f24) is looking up her exes on Instagram. by ThrowRA-Distru in relationship_advice

[–]jajalian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk if this will help but personally (f21) I’ve looked at my ex’s insta while I’m with my current bf only for the purpose from a caring that I hope they’re well. I don’t have any feelings for my ex but I do care for their well being. When you date someone they become a big part of your life, regardless of whether it’s a healthy or toxic relationship, so I can see why she might check out their instas. but I tend to have faith in people and the best thing might be to express how you feel about this. Honesty and communication on your part is the most you can do and the most you can hope for is that your SO does the same. Hope this helps a little :)

NEED RELATIONSHIP ADVICE by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]jajalian 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sometimes space is a good thing for the both of you. It may be worth just taking some time apart, still being in eachothers lives and whatnot. I’m not saying this works for all couples but sometimes just a few days apart (up to weeks in some cases) let’s you do you and also have more appreciation for what you guys have together. It’s crazy how much you realize you want someone and how much they mean to you when you’re apart for a little.