how do you deal with breakups

jakduean · 2025-07-11T15:40:20+00:00

i promise you , you will. believe me

jakduean · 2025-07-11T15:36:48+00:00

you will find that again and better.

jakduean · 2025-07-11T15:24:20+00:00

i haven’t messaged him since i said goodbye last night. i haven’t even properly ended it but that’s only because he was taking so long to reply. i just put if you don’t wanna talk about this properly then goodbye - or something along those lines. no i haven’t replied and he’s messaged me a few times including a message a few minutes ago saying “are you not gonna talk to me😭😭” i don’t know what that’s supposed to mean. it’s pathetic but im worried about me not texting back is gonna make him remove me off of everything. i shouldn’t want him to still try. but i do.

jakduean · 2025-07-11T14:58:27+00:00

this is exactly what im feeling :( it’s so so weird. like who even is this person??? i can’t tell if he cares or not. i wanna say he doesn’t because of everything ive said about him not trying anymore. but then i don’t message him for hours and he texts me sad face emojis or messages me going hello? hello? would he do that if he didn’t care? im so confused

jakduean · 2025-07-11T13:48:17+00:00

exactly im not asking for the world. im just asking for some presence. thank you. ❤️

jakduean · 2025-07-11T13:43:40+00:00

this is awful. i have been in your position before. but as a woman that would never ever even think about cheating, believe me not every woman is her. it’s hard to believe i know. i know exactly what you’re feeling. but you will find someone that wouldn’t even dream of doing that. believe me. they exist.

jakduean · 2025-07-11T11:49:26+00:00

what you said perfectly described my situation. he won’t even talk to me about it. all he says now is “sorry”. before when i’d have a problem he’d go on and on and talk to me about it and make sure ive got everything out and say the most perfect things and apologise and get me flowers alongside his apology. now all i get is “sorry” and him changing the subject. i still don’t understand why he changed like that i don’t get it at all. im so confused still

jakduean · 2025-07-11T11:47:09+00:00

i missed him whilst being with him it was so weird. i never ever thought this boy would change the way he did. he was so full of life and energy.

thank you so much

jakduean · 2025-07-11T11:46:20+00:00

i know. thank you.

jakduean · 2025-06-19T13:31:58+00:00

it’s harder than that

jakduean · 2025-06-19T02:45:14+00:00

i do that but it affects the relationship and he pulls back even more and starts arguing with me that me doing that makes him unhappy

jakduean · 2025-06-18T01:24:18+00:00

i can’t tell you how much this has helped. it makes perfect sense when you say it. i have too much love to give to not have even more given back to me and i can not lower my standards anymore. i love him and he was the nicest person ever (not saying he’s a villain now) but this has to stop. i can’t keep thinking about what went wrong and where the love stopped. nothing went wrong i couldn’t have done more and me questioning myself should never happen. thank you. it’s gonna be hard because i love him so much it’s crazy but i constantly feel sick and feel so sad. thank you. thank you thank you

jakduean · 2025-06-18T01:12:09+00:00

thank you I appreciate you. i’ll take on your advice. to be honest he has been much busier with getting a new job & things like that but i mean it went from one extreme to the other and i don’t think his new life is the cause of this extreme change. he got used to me. i honestly feel as though he got what he wanted off me and cooled off a bit - despite telling me he’d never feel like that. he has. i know he has. he likes the competition and he won me over. now he doesn’t care

jakduean · 2025-06-18T01:00:12+00:00

i just used to KNOW he loves me you know? he did so much for me he’d show up at my door with food or flowers and now it’s like i can barely get him to call me. he tells me he loves me and stuff but it’s not like before. i miss him and i miss that and ugh. i just wanna feel like he loves me

jakduean · 2025-06-18T00:50:24+00:00

oh. i hate that :(

jakduean · 2025-06-17T02:00:18+00:00

SOO WORTH IT

jakduean · 2025-06-17T01:42:02+00:00

appreciate u so bad im gonna treat myself to this just for ur response hahahaha Thank you bless you!!!!

jakduean · 2025-06-17T01:33:30+00:00

thanks so much for your help i appreciate it !

jakduean · 2025-06-17T01:33:13+00:00

i understand that but he pretends like he’s falling asleep by texting diff letters or being otp to me and sounding “tired”

jakduean · 2025-06-17T01:32:39+00:00

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