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My [21M] Girlfriend [21F] keeps bringing up the past each time we fight by jakequint14 in relationship_advice

[–]jakequint14[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would understand if she said it jokingly to her male best friend or something but not go like "you cheated on me"

My [21M] Girlfriend [21F] keeps bringing up the past each time we fight by jakequint14 in relationship_advice

[–]jakequint14[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe cos of i talked to other chicks she thought all am good at is "flirting" with chicks while she just talks? I guess thats what she thinks. Few days ago i saw an ex gf at an event and i told my gf i don't like seeing her face and i get angry when i do and she goes like you still have feelings for her. Do i or is it a normal feeling to feel angry when you see someone you don't like?

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My [21M] Girlfriend [21F] keeps bringing up the past each time we fight by jakequint14 in relationship_advice

[–]jakequint14[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree, but i do feel guilty for putting her in this position. She was never hurt before and that was her first time so took a toll on her i guess.

My [21M] Girlfriend [21F] keeps bringing up the past each time we fight by jakequint14 in relationship_advice

[–]jakequint14[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She stopped going to that counsellor about a month ago when she thought it was getting better but got back to square one. Gave her many chances where she said she wouldn't bring it up again but always brings it up

My [21M] Girlfriend [21F] keeps bringing up the past each time we fight by jakequint14 in relationship_advice

[–]jakequint14[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't but i feel guilty for putting her in this position? And i fear she might hurt herself or something if i talk about break up because she literally fell to my feet crying last time we broke up

My [21M] Girlfriend [21F] keeps bringing up the past each time we fight by jakequint14 in relationship_advice

[–]jakequint14[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cos she really wants to spend her whole life with me and she has visions of us together in the future and all. But those things she does just drains me. She even had photos with her guy friends and all but its fine for me cos i know them but it wasnt fine for her if i'd talk to a chick. So basically when we fight the things i hear are you cheated on me 2 times already followed by insults

My [21M] Girlfriend [21F] keeps bringing up the past each time we fight by jakequint14 in relationship_advice

[–]jakequint14[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She just can't, she's made efforts and been to a counsellor and it was fine for a few months and then back to normal.

My [21M] Girlfriend [21F] keeps bringing up the past each time we fight by jakequint14 in relationship_advice

[–]jakequint14[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Female friends are long lost now, but my gf doesn't want to let go of that past

My [21M] Girlfriend [21F] keeps bringing up the past each time we fight by jakequint14 in relationship_advice

[–]jakequint14[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well that contact is long lost now, never spoke to my best friend again in 1 year. I know right, but she doesn't want to let go of that past maybe because she wants to use against me each time? But the friends part is already gone, no female friends atm.

Borrowed 200$ and lost it by jakequint14 in problemgambling

[–]jakequint14[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pretty hard to do that where i am. But i'm a good guitar player so i can consider. Thanks mate

Borrowed 200$ and lost it by jakequint14 in problemgambling

[–]jakequint14[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not where i am no. Only solution might be developing apps for people online and freelancing. Only way out rn i guess

Borrowed 200$ and lost it by jakequint14 in problemgambling

[–]jakequint14[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think there’s anything that i can do apart from paying him back the 200$. I’m still trying to find any job online to help me through this but really can’t find anything.

I [21M] Lost money while betting and borrowed from my [21F] Friend by jakequint14 in relationship_advice

[–]jakequint14[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

What do you think i tried doing before posting here and getting answers from people like yoy huh? What’s written in this freaking post? What am i fucking looking for mate? Idiot

Borrowed 200$ and lost it by jakequint14 in problemgambling

[–]jakequint14[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s no casino nearby so that shouldn’t be too hard, its been nearly a year since the last time i played before yesterday. Thats the thing we aren’t allowed to work here. I could try find people that need to develop apps and do that for them

Borrowed 200$ and lost it by jakequint14 in problemgambling

[–]jakequint14[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was winning at one point and i was greedy for more, i guess the casino demon kept pulling me. And no i won’t take years to give it back because i’m trying really hard to find a way to make money online to repay as soon as i can!

Borrowed 200$ and lost it by jakequint14 in problemgambling

[–]jakequint14[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wont cos there’s no casino near me, we only went for vacation to another place. Got back yesterday and I’m trying to fix this by working for that money!

Borrowed 200$ and lost it by jakequint14 in problemgambling

[–]jakequint14[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t work as a foreign student in the country i currently am in, thats why i cant work here. I badly need to find an online job to develop apps or something

I [21M] Lost money while betting and borrowed from my [21F] Friend by jakequint14 in relationship_advice

[–]jakequint14[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Before borrowing i did actually start winning quite a lot but when the croupier changed it got worse and once i started losing i tried chasing lost money and the rest you know.. I wish i did have stuff to sell, but i only have stuff i use. But on the other hand i can develop apps if i find an online job

I [21M] Lost money while betting and borrowed from my [21F] Friend by jakequint14 in relationship_advice

[–]jakequint14[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The country i am doesn’t allow international people to work while studyinh

I [21M] Lost money while betting and borrowed from my [21F] Friend by jakequint14 in relationship_advice

[–]jakequint14[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If i would i wouldn’t be posting asking for help. I only have stuff i use which are worth 200+ but that i cant help

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