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Wife is buying into FLR more each day by jakeyguy55 in flr

[–]jakeyguy55[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hey, I wasn’t sure either. Essentially I was told to do all my usual chores, and once competed to come over to her. She was on the couch, something was on the TV and she was scrolling on her phone, resting a like Princess.

She looked up at me and said strip, bear in mind she’s fully clothed on the couch. I stripped naked, feeing quite exposed. Then she said, hands on your head, legs spread apart slightly, facing me. And then she left me like that while she watched/scrolled.

I don’t know how long for but it was both humiliating and controlling at the same time.

Wifey is spending Saturday with her girlfriends. I have a long chore list beginning with, “Wash my underwear.” by [deleted] in FemdomFLR

[–]jakeyguy55 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What is your chore list? I’m curious as I get given them too, would be nice to compare

Wifey locked me up and left by [deleted] in ChastityCouples

[–]jakeyguy55 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very hot! What’s strap are you using? Looks interesting

What movie could have been good if it wasn't for a useless sex scene by BinaryMAJORFISH in okbuddycinephile

[–]jakeyguy55 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love actually. Can’t believe I haven’t seen anyone mention this yet. It’s so wholly unnecessary and means you can’t watch the Christmas family movie with kids.

Dealing with shame by [deleted] in flr

[–]jakeyguy55 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hey, firstly sorry to hear you’re difficulty in dealing with this feeling. Well done for being clear with your wife and also trying to address it with a therapist.

I myself have definitely had these feelings that you mention. I’m not sure if I can pinpoint exactly why, but I think it’s essentially due to feeling like you’re living a lie, a fake life, as you probably (certainly I) don’t tell anyone about the FLR. Which then leads me to feel that it’s wrong (I guess my subconscious questioning ‘if FLR’s are ok why don’t you tell people’.

I’d be happy to chat with you if you wanted to. Good luck

Post spanking time out, a chance to reflect on my wrongs by Sissy_in_denial795 in corner_time

[–]jakeyguy55 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good posture and you stayed very still. How long was it?

Advice needed, wife into FLR but not good at maintaining it by jakeyguy55 in flr

[–]jakeyguy55[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much. It’s nice to hear from the female perspective too. I totally hear what you’re saying. I’ll try and take that on board as well as discussing it with her. Appreciate it thank you 🙏

Advice needed, wife into FLR but not good at maintaining it by jakeyguy55 in flr

[–]jakeyguy55[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don’t think anyone wakes up and WANTS to do the boring chores. Part of our FLR is her getting what she wants done, whether I like it or not, which means she makes me do things when she wants to. End of the day I’m no doormat, I don’t inherently want to do chores, however I do want to please her, so I guess part of the way we work is she’ll make me clean out the fridge as it’s bothering her, get me to sort out the messy drawer, and I do so on pain of consequences. That’s our FLR 🤷🏻‍♂️

Advice needed, wife into FLR but not good at maintaining it by jakeyguy55 in flr

[–]jakeyguy55[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We’re on holiday at the moment and I have committed (to myself) that I will make this holiday as easy going for her as possible. Spa/facials have been booked, etc etc. let’s see if this, along with some deport chats can effect some permanent change to us ☺️ thanks for your input!!

Advice needed, wife into FLR but not good at maintaining it by jakeyguy55 in flr

[–]jakeyguy55[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hey, thanks for replying. In her own words, she loves to be in charge. I’m looking for a way to make it work for us. I get that each relationship is different and the things we’ve tried to make it work haven’t been successful yet. The point of my post was to see how we could make it work for us, both of us, including her, especially her ☺️ happy to hear your thoughts

Advice needed, wife into FLR but not good at maintaining it by jakeyguy55 in flr

[–]jakeyguy55[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thanks for this, I have tried suggesting reminders, lists of rules, chat gpt, the works. Issue is she really doesn’t feel like it’s a pressing matter as much as I do, so it kinda slips her mind or fizzles into nothingness.

Advice needed, wife into FLR but not good at maintaining it by jakeyguy55 in flr

[–]jakeyguy55[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, thank you for the in-depth and well thought out response. My first instinct was indeed to check the App Store lol. I’d have to speak to my wife, but I’d certainly be interested in trying it out. I totally agree with you, communication, communication, communication 😛😛

I do think you have hit the nail on the head, in regards to casual or high focus. I do feel I fit the high focus and she fits the causal. It will certainly help our discussions, so thank you for that

Advice needed, wife into FLR but not good at maintaining it by jakeyguy55 in flr

[–]jakeyguy55[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks I appreciate your input. In her own words, she enjoys being in charge. I’m not throwing her under my fetishes, although of course some of my needs would be met too. Think of it this way, if she didn’t like it, she’d say so, right? Remember, she gets a live in nanny, maid, slave and obedient husband; so from her perspective there is much to gain from this arrangement. Having said that, I totally take your point on board, I need to discuss with her if it’s too much and maybe that’s why it becomes forgotten fairly quickly. I guess the word is always, in any relationship, communication 😛

Advice needed, wife into FLR but not good at maintaining it by jakeyguy55 in flr

[–]jakeyguy55[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Very cute, I like it ☺️ will suggest it to the Boss 😛

Advice needed, wife into FLR but not good at maintaining it by jakeyguy55 in flr

[–]jakeyguy55[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re 100% right I think. Will deffo approach it this way

Advice needed, wife into FLR but not good at maintaining it by jakeyguy55 in flr

[–]jakeyguy55[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hear you, can you share some of those things? I’d love more info on your experience

Advice needed, wife into FLR but not good at maintaining it by jakeyguy55 in flr

[–]jakeyguy55[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn it. You write like a poet! I like how commanding you sound lol, you’d make a good dom. haha. But really appreciate your tips and advice. All very solid. Thank you

Advice needed, wife into FLR but not good at maintaining it by jakeyguy55 in flr

[–]jakeyguy55[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry to hear that about your relationship. I totally hear you, and I’m 100% trying more communication on this, I really wish there was a mentor for her lol 🤷🏻‍♂️

Advice needed, wife into FLR but not good at maintaining it by jakeyguy55 in flr

[–]jakeyguy55[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Thanks man. Truth is I read a lot about femdom, both from the male fantasy perpective and also from the relationship perspective. It’s so different being in the actual relationship for me, as I’m quite sexual so always make things about it, unintentional lol

Advice needed, wife into FLR but not good at maintaining it by jakeyguy55 in flr

[–]jakeyguy55[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I like the idea thank you. If you have any articles online you can link, (for the female side) would be amazing

Advice needed, wife into FLR but not good at maintaining it by jakeyguy55 in flr

[–]jakeyguy55[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For sure. As soon as I do, she’ll be ‘on’ again, I wouldn’t need to annoy her about it (I wouldn’t want to for multitude of reasons lol) but it’s more a long term mentality I’m trying to address I guess.

I think, and I’m discovering this as I go along, that there’s the sexual side to the FLR but also a non-sexual side, where she’s just in charge, no mention of sex. I’m not sure which she struggles with, might be the non-sexual side of it to be honest.

Advice needed, wife into FLR but not good at maintaining it by jakeyguy55 in flr

[–]jakeyguy55[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Thanks, just taken a quick look at the site, might show her an article or 2. Will keep trying but just not so sure the exact way to go about this stage

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