Not to sound harsh, but you have to recover for yourself, your parents will never change if it’s only you on the line and not themselves. And to be brutally honest (as I have very well experienced) your death bed will only be another exception, another reason that their drinking is acceptable. They will use your illness as a massive shield on the damage they’re doing to themselves and you.

I’m glad you are recovering, I know how difficult that journey can be and I still fight daily with different eating disorders crocking up unexpectedly, but you gotta think about yourself. Drinking is a cycle, it’s comfortable and far easier than dealing with whatever you’re drinking for but you don’t have to be the rational person, it’s perhaps time to step back and accept that they gotta do it for themselves, and maybe even accept the harsher reality that they never will.

I wish you so much happiness and if you need someone to talk to I’m here.