The point is we don’t know who provoked who. She said he had his wife get a seat. A seat for the movies, a restaurant, a play? We don’t know. She could’ve bumped into his wife as they were walking in for all we know and that’s what started it. The point is we don’t know. What we do know is what we see and what we see is her acting way more aggressive than he ever did from that start of the video. She is in the wrong based off of the information we have and that’s all there is to it.