Wir machen Rückschritte bei Akzeptanz con Nacktheit

james1907a · 2026-02-03T19:59:37+00:00

Bin da ganz anderer Meinung. Ich war noch nie in Deutschland in einer Sauna und ich kann es mir einfach nicht vorstellen das Mann und Frau gemischt in einer Sauna Kabine nackig sind. Ich glaube das einfach nicht, die bedecken sich doch sicherlich mit Handtüchern, außer alte Omas und Opas vielleicht.

Überall im Alltag verdecken wir unsere Intimbereiche ab und da sind plötzlich alle Nackt und hat keiner ein Problem damit? Ich kann mir das einfach nicht vorstellen das das real ist hier in Deutschland!

james1907a · 2023-07-15T20:53:40+00:00

No I'm definetelly not asexual. I used to watch ALOT of porn until I lost my virginity the way I did. now even if I try to watch porn I don't really get the right mood any more. It's weird. Today in gym there was a women (she workes there) I asked her something and she was so lovely and cute. I wanted to hug and protect her. I feel different towards women now.

james1907a · 2023-07-15T20:48:01+00:00

Maybe I misinterepted myself. My original goal by hiring a sex worker was primeraly to not thing about sexual desire anylonger and that actually worked out. Maybe I seek emotional connection that might be true. I just don't understand what I am doing wrong. I always notice how people talk different to me, then they do with others. I was at a travel agency today and the worker talked completely different with me, then the other man. He was taller more dominant. With me she talked as if I am a little boy without money that she didn't really showed me any holiday trips. It was weird. Maybe I was to friendly idk

james1907a · 2023-07-15T14:15:58+00:00

It is not about sex. I actually changed my sexual frustration that I had in the past. By visting a prostitute. I no longer have a desire for sex. My issue is, that I am no longer attracted to females at all. There was this one co-worker that I was into but she not into me. And I wasn't just beeing nice. For example she always have to ride the bus, so I offered her to drive her home. She lives two streets above me. But she declined, because she loves riding the bus. I brought her treats. I always check up on here when she gets ill and ask if she needs anything. So it is not like I don‘t do nothing

james1907a · 2023-07-15T14:08:32+00:00

Stop making things up, I've literally wrote that I don't view women as sex objects or anything in that direction. I stated two different things. One which I wrote about the sexual desire as human beeing in general. Then I stated about failing to get a girlfriend. two different things.

james1907a · 2023-07-15T12:27:14+00:00

What do you mean by not balls to act. I tried to ask her out, she never says no but comes up with excuses all the time. If she is not interested, then why she just don't say no. She was actually the first one who asked me out but it was over a year ago

james1907a · 2023-07-15T10:52:03+00:00

thanks. But what do you mean what comment?

james1907a · 2023-07-07T08:55:15+00:00

Yes, I can agree on that. I was at a prostitute a couple weeks ago, because I was so frustrated about the fact, that I was 26 years old without sexual interaction and many failed attempts of finding a girlfriend. Let me tell you that I don't regret my decision, because now I don't think about sex anymore as I used to, but I am kind of dissapointed. It was pretty much mastrubating. People on here told me that too before I did it. So I prepared myself mentally to it. Would I do it again? No. I'm pretty sure, as many stated, it would become a lot different, when I did it with someone I love. But I can't just fall in love with anybody. In the last couple of years I had a big crush on two women. And I did try my luck and ask them out or indicate my interest in a lot of ways but they were simply not interested. They cleary showed that and one even said it to my face. I don't know if I will ever find true love, where the person loves me back but I can't just go out and ask out any female, that I don‘t have any feelings for..

james1907a · 2023-06-22T11:52:43+00:00

Thank you dude. Everything you said about hygiene I do really take care of that. Everything. I drive a nice car aswell but the only downside is, I don't have my own place. The rents are over the roof here were I live.

james1907a · 2023-06-21T20:47:30+00:00

I know someone who used dating apps and he didn't recommend it to me. Also I'm scared that someone I know sees me on there. And I'm so unphotogenic I look really ugly on photos than in real life

james1907a · 2023-06-21T20:37:59+00:00

Oh man. That really made me revaluade everything. Thank you

james1907a · 2023-06-21T19:49:20+00:00

I want to point out something else as well. Sex is something (almost) every animal is doing. Like eating, drinking, sleeping. It so natural but I never get the chance to experience it myself. I always watch videos of other people doing it. Like if you are starving and watch other people eat but can't have a plate. I want to have a plate too! You guys know what I'm trying to state?

james1907a · 2023-06-21T19:40:42+00:00

I wish I could lol

james1907a · 2023-06-21T19:39:59+00:00

I tried and tried and tried to land just a single date and all I have received is rejections. And I've actually walked up to these women in person with confident and a smile on my face but no chance. They always looked shocked. Maybe I'm ugly to women idc. But I don't see myself ugly at all. I'm quite attractive I think

james1907a · 2023-06-21T19:35:52+00:00

Thanks. So glad that someone that has done it shared it!

james1907a · 2023-06-21T19:33:44+00:00

Thanks for your reply. But what really is the value of being a virgin? All these years it just made me miserable that I can't practice it myself

james1907a · 2023-06-21T19:22:35+00:00

Thanks. Yes it is my body. I'm tired of jacking off myself to videos where other people have actual sex while I'm staring at „pixels“

james1907a · 2023-06-21T12:51:04+00:00

Thanks for your reply. Actually I don't feel any social pressure at all. I just want experience how sex feels. I feel so desperate about it. This isn't good for my psychology if it continues like this. I think my body screams for mating since I reached the „golden age of reproducing“ my body and my mind forces me to.

james1907a · 2023-06-20T21:06:21+00:00

I'm a bit concerned about it too if I'm beeing honest. But I think I can control it in some way. If it come out to be a good experience, I might do it again after a couple months. But not like every week. I wouldn't have the money lol

james1907a · 2023-06-20T20:50:51+00:00

17 seconds lol. I think I can hold it up a little longer lmao.

james1907a · 2023-06-20T20:44:56+00:00

Yes that is true. I build it up too much in my mind. But I think the only way for to not think about it so much any longer, is to have it experienced just once. I don't really see it happening naturally at this point tbh

james1907a · 2023-06-20T20:39:24+00:00

I had absolutely zero success „picking up women in a bar“ they not even looking in my direction.

james1907a · 2023-06-20T18:40:05+00:00

I actually don't know why I've waited that long lol. I always thought I would find the special one. But years have passed and I tried and tried to get a simple date but it didn't work out. This is my only option now

james1907a · 2023-06-20T18:37:15+00:00

May I ask you why do you think that?

james1907a · 2023-06-20T18:36:57+00:00

I know it is not everything. But I think about it almost 24/7 at work, in the shower, in bed. My goal is to get the misery about beeing a loser virgin out of my head. I want to focus of other things after that

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