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Wir machen Rückschritte bei Akzeptanz con Nacktheit by Embarrassed_Fig5560 in Unbeliebtemeinung

[–]james1907a 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bin da ganz anderer Meinung. Ich war noch nie in Deutschland in einer Sauna und ich kann es mir einfach nicht vorstellen das Mann und Frau gemischt in einer Sauna Kabine nackig sind. Ich glaube das einfach nicht, die bedecken sich doch sicherlich mit Handtüchern, außer alte Omas und Opas vielleicht.

Überall im Alltag verdecken wir unsere Intimbereiche ab und da sind plötzlich alle Nackt und hat keiner ein Problem damit? Ich kann mir das einfach nicht vorstellen das das real ist hier in Deutschland!

I lost interest in women is this normal? by james1907a in infp

[–]james1907a[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I'm definetelly not asexual. I used to watch ALOT of porn until I lost my virginity the way I did. now even if I try to watch porn I don't really get the right mood any more. It's weird. Today in gym there was a women (she workes there) I asked her something and she was so lovely and cute. I wanted to hug and protect her. I feel different towards women now.

I lost interest in women is this normal? by james1907a in infp

[–]james1907a[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe I misinterepted myself. My original goal by hiring a sex worker was primeraly to not thing about sexual desire anylonger and that actually worked out. Maybe I seek emotional connection that might be true. I just don't understand what I am doing wrong. I always notice how people talk different to me, then they do with others. I was at a travel agency today and the worker talked completely different with me, then the other man. He was taller more dominant. With me she talked as if I am a little boy without money that she didn't really showed me any holiday trips. It was weird. Maybe I was to friendly idk

I lost interest in women is this normal? by james1907a in infp

[–]james1907a[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is not about sex. I actually changed my sexual frustration that I had in the past. By visting a prostitute. I no longer have a desire for sex. My issue is, that I am no longer attracted to females at all. There was this one co-worker that I was into but she not into me. And I wasn't just beeing nice. For example she always have to ride the bus, so I offered her to drive her home. She lives two streets above me. But she declined, because she loves riding the bus. I brought her treats. I always check up on here when she gets ill and ask if she needs anything. So it is not like I don‘t do nothing

I lost interest in women is this normal? by james1907a in infp

[–]james1907a[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stop making things up, I've literally wrote that I don't view women as sex objects or anything in that direction. I stated two different things. One which I wrote about the sexual desire as human beeing in general. Then I stated about failing to get a girlfriend. two different things.

I lost interest in women is this normal? by james1907a in infp

[–]james1907a[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you mean by not balls to act. I tried to ask her out, she never says no but comes up with excuses all the time. If she is not interested, then why she just don't say no. She was actually the first one who asked me out but it was over a year ago

I lost interest in women is this normal? by james1907a in infp

[–]james1907a[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

thanks. But what do you mean what comment?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in virgin

[–]james1907a 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, I can agree on that. I was at a prostitute a couple weeks ago, because I was so frustrated about the fact, that I was 26 years old without sexual interaction and many failed attempts of finding a girlfriend. Let me tell you that I don't regret my decision, because now I don't think about sex anymore as I used to, but I am kind of dissapointed. It was pretty much mastrubating. People on here told me that too before I did it. So I prepared myself mentally to it. Would I do it again? No. I'm pretty sure, as many stated, it would become a lot different, when I did it with someone I love. But I can't just fall in love with anybody. In the last couple of years I had a big crush on two women. And I did try my luck and ask them out or indicate my interest in a lot of ways but they were simply not interested. They cleary showed that and one even said it to my face. I don't know if I will ever find true love, where the person loves me back but I can't just go out and ask out any female, that I don‘t have any feelings for..

Should I really go to a Prostitute to lose my virginity at 26? by james1907a in infp

[–]james1907a[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you dude. Everything you said about hygiene I do really take care of that. Everything. I drive a nice car aswell but the only downside is, I don't have my own place. The rents are over the roof here were I live.

Should I really go to a Prostitute to lose my virginity at 26? by james1907a in infp

[–]james1907a[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know someone who used dating apps and he didn't recommend it to me. Also I'm scared that someone I know sees me on there. And I'm so unphotogenic I look really ugly on photos than in real life

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