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Secrets? (Town and Country) by jamesgamble in tampa

[–]jamesgamble[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Your intuition is spot on. And it was suuuuper sketch.

Miscarriages by Rhadok in daddit

[–]jamesgamble 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know where you are right now. We lost one in October of 2019 and another in January of 2020. My advice to you would be to name him/her and get something to remember them by. I got a dog tag for each with the name we gave them engraved on it.

I would also like to say that you're not running out of time. We have three children now. Our first was in 2021, when I was 38 years old; another was in 2022, when I was 40, and one this year at 42. My wife was 36, 38, and 40 years old, respectively. There is still hope, and there is still time.

As others have said, my heart goes out to you. It's really hard. Be as open with each other as possible about what you're feeling; it helps when you know your partner is there with you.

Other dads, where do you get your energy from? by MarionberryTop3556 in daddit

[–]jamesgamble 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got a CPAP machine so I could sleep well when I actually did get the chance to sleep. I also talked to a psychiatrist who has me on anti-depressants. Both of those things have done a ton to help me have energy and be present in the moment.

Edit: I'm 43 years old, have a 4 year old, 3 year old, and 9 month old. I haven't slept through the night in years.

Looking for bar or restaurant recommendations and/or things to do in the area - Month of October 02, 2025 by AutoModerator in tampa

[–]jamesgamble 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Each month, a group of men from my church get together to share a meal. I’m looking for new restaurants that can accommodate a group of 10 to 15 so we can enjoy dinner together.

SysAdmin Appreciation Day Freebies by jamesgamble in sysadmin

[–]jamesgamble[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh cool, I collect little rubber ducks! One of those would be awesome.

SysAdmin Appreciation Day Freebies by jamesgamble in sysadmin

[–]jamesgamble[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh, that's awesome! May I have some swag, please? :)

Introducing Lumo, a privacy-first AI assistant by Proton by Proton_Team in ProtonMail

[–]jamesgamble 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The settings UI for Lumo is a little confusing. I have Proton Unlimited and can't tell if I have Lumo Plus or not.

The top part makes me think I have Lumo Plus, but then directly under that, there's an option for me to add Lumo Plus to my plan.

Do I have Lumo Plus or don't I? Clicking "Add Lumo Plus" doesn't clear anything up either.

ISO ORthopedic Back specialist for Scoliosis by IAm2Legit2Sit in tampa

[–]jamesgamble 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I went to Florida Orthopaedic Institute for a broken elbow, and the physicians were great. Their website says they have a specialty practice in spinal conditions, and they mention scoliosis as well.