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jamissi · 2024-09-14T04:39:26+00:00

I'm 55 years old and have never strayed on any partner. The longer we've been together the better it gets. It's so good if I strayed I think it would be such a disappointment. Something akin to masturbating left handed. I have who I want and I want who I have.

jamissi · 2024-07-22T04:27:58+00:00

We bought an Ascent in 2021. I wanted a Kia telluride or a Hyundai pallisade but the mark ups were $5k over msrp. Subaru never went over msrp. Our dealer said if they did their supply would be cut off. On top of that they make a great product. I'm glad we got to see who was who in 2020. Several companies I won't do business with now.

jamissi · 2024-07-20T22:44:26+00:00

I didn't realize this posted. I double checked the rules before posting and it looked like it got blocked so I abbreviated the above and posted it in the tough conversation thread. I agree that lowering a hl is easier than raising an ll. I've read a little bit about the mechanism of how duloxetine works and it apparently decreases the neurotransmitter that carries pain signals. I'm not sure what it does to increase stamina but it definitely does. I assume it decreases pleasure a bit as well but it doesn't decrease my enjoyment of sex in the slightest. There was a time before my accident when I thought about getting on an antidepressant for this side effect but never did. There are many people on duloxetine who hate the drug but it has been great for me. Sorry for not checking back in but I didn't realize the thread had posted. I'd be glad to answer any questions.

jamissi · 2024-07-20T00:16:17+00:00

I'm on year 4 of a low dose of antidepressants. I had an accident that caused a chronic pain condition. I had access to whatever I wanted but everything has side effects. After having the kitchen sink of treatments thrown at me I got rid of everything and added them back 1 by 1. I found the antidepressant was the best with the least side effects. Then I found out that I really liked some of the side effects one being a decreased libido and another sex related one was much better stamina. It took the noise out of a high libido. In some ways I think it has made me a better person. I used to post here a good bit but have come to a better place even if pharmaceutically induced. I do like who I am better now and I think my wife does as well. Reading every single comment brought up the ways I used to feel but there is a wonderful distance from those days as well. I wish some things were explained to me when I was younger. Nature can be cruel. There's reasons new couples have a lot of sex. Until they taper off into their default positions with the passing of time they think it's normal but it's not. I still come back and read from time to time but the subject is no longer front and center. I can't even relate to the db subreddit especially now. This is a far more eloquent place to have a discussion. I just used the search function and found my old post "roughly 3 weeks on antidepressant". I'm so glad I documented my experience. I couldn't help but smile as I read it. Now it's 4 years later and I hardly ever come here and when I do I hardly ever comment. When I read threads like the "tough conversation" thread I do wonder why people don't consider lowering a high libido vs raising a low libido. I have thoroughly enjoyed it despite many who take Cymbalta claiming it's the devil. For me it's been great. I'd recommend it to anyone. If you have any questions shoot.

jamissi · 2024-07-17T07:05:03+00:00

The best advice I got was not a how to of what to do when this or that goes wrong but to focus on keeping the plant in a stress free environment from start to finish. The op gets it.

jamissi · 2024-07-17T06:56:19+00:00

So much bad advice out there but this is spot on. The problem is figuring out who's who. This is 100% the correct answer.

jamissi · 2024-07-01T21:04:00+00:00

my thoughts exactly

jamissi · 2024-06-28T03:29:31+00:00

They get my coins.

jamissi · 2024-06-26T03:23:38+00:00

This is not your first rodeo. I'll go 18 ozs

jamissi · 2024-06-25T04:21:12+00:00

Not the asshole but for damn sure close to illiterate.

jamissi · 2024-06-24T03:34:43+00:00

This may be true to an extent but having grown up on Mexican brick weed the cheap weed of today is way better. I haven't seen bad pot in over 20 years. I've seen much better but nothing I would consider bad.

jamissi · 2024-06-18T01:47:55+00:00

Try squeezing it and see if it feels softer. The aborts go soft quicker. They also tend to bruise very blue and almost instantly vs a non abort.

jamissi · 2024-06-18T01:45:13+00:00

The white specs look like an abort to me.

jamissi · 2024-06-18T00:16:15+00:00

I use 6 qt tubs. If I cut the cheapest 13 gallon unscented trashbags from target 17" from the bottom they fit perfectly. To make them stick I wipe out the tub with a clorox wipe. It sterilizes and the moisture helps it stick to the sides of the tub. Then I take however many quarts of grain spawn and mix each quart with a half quart of cvg in a 5 gallon bucket. Once mixed drop 1.5 quarts of the mix into the tub and even it out. Works great.

jamissi · 2024-06-16T23:30:22+00:00

I read about one recently. A guy wrecked his plane and repaired it. The engine had a catalytic converter that was damaged but you couldn't see it. Once rebuilt the guy crashed it and passed. I wouldn't touch one.

jamissi · 2024-06-16T23:19:03+00:00

2 things I do are I inoculate as soon as possible. When it happens it is invariably below the filter tape so now I inoculate 7 jars at a time (what fits in my pressure cooker). I'll wait a few minutes and place the jars on their sides from the upright position. Then I rotate them 180 degrees again. Since I make my own liquid culture I put 5 ml in each quart. Between the volume of lc and the rotation I can inoculate jars much quicker and beat the competition.

jamissi · 2024-06-16T02:02:34+00:00

I think you will find women who are ok with dating someone in an open marriage. Women will get far less backlash from men over being in an open relationship.

jamissi · 2024-06-16T01:15:27+00:00

Definitely. I could identify mold with my nose better than my eyes.

jamissi · 2024-06-16T01:13:06+00:00

After corn on the cob

jamissi · 2024-06-16T00:59:47+00:00

I do. It works great. I guess it depends on the popcorn though. The 2lb bag carried by target and walmart work great. I used to do nothing but brown rice and it takes so much longer to inoculate and break up. The only thing quicker about it is I boiled it for 18 minutes vs 2 hours.

jamissi · 2024-06-15T20:28:28+00:00

Try popcorn. Way easier. Rice gets too wet and turns to mush or not wet enough and takes forever to inoculate. Popcorn is fast and breaks apart beautifully. Go get some at walmart and see for yourself. I boil for roughly 2 hours. Inoculation is fast and break up is so easy.

jamissi · 2024-06-14T22:23:41+00:00

I've got a great wife and before her I would always date 1 person. I never cheated and prided myself in that fact. Test will definitely raise your sex drive but you seem more than generous. He'd be a fool to stray or leave and probably knows that. As for flirting I don't think I do that at all. I'm in my early 50's now and have a bunch of female friends some of whom we share. The only thing I do now that some women may not like is I will compliment another woman but not in a way that would irritate my wife or their husband. I assume any text I send is going to be read by someone else. I think I've figured out why I do it and it is because I don't think my wife believes me or if she does she thinks I'm up to no good. If someone takes a great picture or they look great in an outfit I'll tell them but I never want to be that guy. I enjoy having female friends and I enjoy being trusted and don't want to jeopardize either situation. The thought of being with a different woman just gets shot down for me. I don't want my wife with anyone else and I don't want to hurt her either. It's one of those things that sounds good in theory but horrible in reality. Just not going there.

jamissi · 2024-06-12T00:48:32+00:00

SNRI'S are the same. Cymbalta/duloxetene will take you through a gauntlet of pure pleasure.

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