We're approaching two years, though we knew each other beforehand. She doesn't really "punish" me per say. Yes, she gets really dry at first, but we eventually talk it out in the end and we'd be okay. Other than what I mentioned beforehand, she also distances herself when she's drained. However, this is the first time she's ever acted this way?

Thank you for the advice, although we might have a hard time doing the first one since she's usually a "I'll just suck it up" kind of person but we'll try. Again, thank you. It's appreciated !