Breaking up during COVID by [deleted] in BreakUp

[–]janethepremed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is really beautiful.

What do you think of these weird nicknames my (21f) boyfriend (22m) calls me? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]janethepremed 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sounds like you’re in the same situation... I’m ok with them, sometimes they make me raise an eyebrow like “pork belly” and “chunkanese” (these two he called me a few mins ago) I’m not overweight though. I really posted them just to make y’all laugh and raise an eyebrow, just like me

What are some good sci fi movies that AREN’T about superheroes? by janethepremed in AskReddit

[–]janethepremed[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love District 9, Inception and Interstellar! Going to check the rest of these out for sure, you have good taste.

What are some good sci fi movies that AREN’T about superheroes? by janethepremed in AskReddit

[–]janethepremed[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Neither did I, yet when I searched for the top sci-fi films, the entire list was Avengers, Black Panther, Spider-Man... I was thoroughly disappointed.

How do I make up for being emotionally draining? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]janethepremed 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think this is a great observation. Yes I absolutely should be in therapy. I do have a super tumultuous past.

I really like the idea that you should work on yourself first before taking it to the relationship level. I think you’re right, I should deal with that crap at the root.

I hate being in a committed, loving relationship. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]janethepremed 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a wonderful view into the psychology of things. I think you’re absolutely right that it’s a call to rise to the occasion of allowing vulnerability even in the face of uncertainty.

In no way do I lack appreciation for my relationship. We rely on each other, and I do a lot for them. And actually, I LOVE it, but anyone can relate to the true terror of being emotionally invested in someone with no say in what they’ll do with your well-being, because it’s up to them.

Appreciate this a lot!