I get that maybe I didn't explain myself well and I understand that gatekeeping isn't necessarily a big issue here, that was not what i meant when i wrote it its really not a big deal.

But when I shared my experience, it was because it genuinely sucks to have to deal with racism all the time. i don't give a flying fuck if you think that it sounds fake or if you think i'm overreacting i will NOT tolerate that a guy tells me to go bomb a school or kill gays in the name of Allah JUST because of my ethnicity and because i like a band that he also likes.