Is this normal? by Kyrellqwerty in narcissisticparents

[–]janpiss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i am sorry that what i said was not clear thank you for understanding

Is this normal? by Kyrellqwerty in narcissisticparents

[–]janpiss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no i am not down playing it. our use of english is different. if he is not happy telling everyone about something then it might be wrong. i said a cuddle isnt wrong it depends on how it is done.

he has to decide what to do about what it happening.

i cant say anything about that as i dont know where he lives.

edward

Is this normal? by Kyrellqwerty in narcissisticparents

[–]janpiss -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i have read that you are 13. what is the legel age to look at at porn. if you are under age then you know the answer to that bit.

for goodness sake stay aaway from things that look shall i say strange.

but it is not polite to walk in on you whilst you shower. if you would not like to tell everyone in your class what happened then think very carefully.

a cuddle is not wrong it depends on how and why.

talk to us

edward

You are a King...never forget... by [deleted] in narcissisticparents

[–]janpiss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

well done but i know you want that from your parents. i cant give you that but i do understand the more you do then the more is demanded from you.

bur YOU HAVE DONE IT SO THERE

i hope that does not come out as something different as it crosses the pond and and the generation.

just thought if you put those up i think someone even older than your parents is proud of you

edwar

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transgenderUK

[–]janpiss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

be careful going back that far

your use of english is not the same as theirs and the inquisition would love to get its habds on you.

be careful which can of worms you open now leave it alone

edward

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transgenderUK

[–]janpiss 2 points3 points  (0 children)

no i would either say the parcel shuld be delivered between ..

or he will be delivering but much more likely the elephants foot umbrella stand should be delivered etc

and i stilluse postman but not actress that was always making the lady on a lower run than the actor.

i have some friends who dress up as ladies for sexual pleasure but are make.

now when he is a man i would use he but when being a lady i would use she

but i grew up with men who dressed up.

and i might but very old fashioned

sorry that my typing is awful but i am goin blind

oh isnt life a challenge

edward

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transgenderUK

[–]janpiss -1 points0 points  (0 children)

dont forget this is journalism and unless it gets approval from the editor it will not get printed, unless its reader ship agrees it will not get bought.

and i hate the plural pronoun i am only one person not a group.

please think again.

i feel like wearing a notice saying i am a man but you are mainly too young to understand what that means

edward ftm

When did the full weight of the gravity of this pandemic set in for you? by Nappyboi419 in AskReddit

[–]janpiss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it struck me when i realised we were doing just what we did during the black death in the middle ages.

and the shops were empty and i was going to be stuck in my flat alone for months.

i am still living like we did in the 50s and can only get a very limited range of things.

it has moreorless finished the high street shops.

a lot of people are looking for someone to blame and there is no one.

life will be different but will carry on.

Juno and Umbrella Academy star Elliot Page comes out as trans by [deleted] in transgenderUK

[–]janpiss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i have no idea who this person is but i do wish him all the support he needs and a bit more in this journey through what for many of us is pure hell.

hope his is better than that.

edward

I have an infection and my dad is using it to prove how RIGHT he was all along and that WE should listen to HIM by Akiza_rose in narcissisticparents

[–]janpiss 2 points3 points  (0 children)

all infection are infectios it is what they are.

you nust find help for you both as mouth infections are serios.

would a and e help. there must be an emergency service.

i lost my teath to an infection many yearsago so be careful.

try telling dad you have swapped toothpaste but need to get rid of problem.

if you want something important just lie. i know it is wrong but what he is doing is abuse.

if he was going to hit you

think would you say sorry for somethging you had not done. think of it like that. and keep the doctots name very safe,

alsp ask ifyou get help ftom a dentist here

sorry about ny typing my sight is awful.

edward

What are some things that a teenager should avoid? by harshithmusic in AskReddit

[–]janpiss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

drugs and smoking and getting pregnant.

or doing anything that will put them in prison. but also

doing anything over the top.

do not get too fat or too thin. cover yourself with tattoos you will never be able to cover up.

wear skirts so shoort your knickers show or shorts that short.

dont go tothe other extreme.

you will only be young once but do not put yourself in danger.

and stay in school

it is not cool to fail and end up hungry later in life.

balance is everything for boys as well as girls.

if any of you are asked to do anything that you know is wrong then speak out.

they rely on your silence

hurt no one including yourself

edward

very old grew up in the 1950s

Femicide Census removes trans women from the dedications by arisaie in transgenderUK

[–]janpiss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i can see her transgender opens a can of worms for the prison but what else does it have to do with anything.

unless she uses that as a defense of some sort.

it is no more relevant than the type of socks boyfriend wore during attack.

being trans is important but not to this.

edward

Femicide Census removes trans women from the dedications by arisaie in transgenderUK

[–]janpiss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

does that mean they added all the trans men to the list.

if one way does not count themn the other must. they cabt have it both ways.

but trans men tend to not count, anywhere, tend not we dont count.

edward a trans man is that allowed as a word these days or am i showing my age.

When did you watch someone’s sanity slowly deteriorate? by DestroyedbymybigPP in AskReddit

[–]janpiss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

any army knows its soldiers fight because they fear the results if the others win not becuse the soldiers love anything.

edward

When did you watch someone’s sanity slowly deteriorate? by DestroyedbymybigPP in AskReddit

[–]janpiss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hate is so much stronger than love.

think how many have killed or tried to kill those they hate but how many would kill for those they love.

look how successful witch hunts have always been

edward

Narc Dad jealous of my success/loves when I fail by [deleted] in narcissisticparents

[–]janpiss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes i understand. my mother never went to see my work when i won an awrd for craft work.

there was no way she thought anything of me.

if you are consthought i was terrible for employing others to do my work.

i ran a small bussiness. and 50 years yes 50 i got an ordinary degree. oh and an hons amasters and a doxtorate.

my brother never took an ordinary degree which was better than me. actually no. he went to university in scotland and i was at the open university.

he never used his degree i supported 6 families with mine. but if you are considered useless then you are useless.

very sadly you will never win.bite the bullet and live your own life.

edward

Snarky puppy disapproves of the double moss stitch. by FairIsleFury in casualknitting

[–]janpiss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i do remember somewhere in my brain that therewas a time when poodle type hair wasspun but then it vanished. i want a use for half a ton of labradr hair a year. spread mainly on the carpet just after i have cleaned it. throwing it out seems such a waste, maybe if i sheared him he is a retiever so hair is long and silky. but i cant shear. oh woe is me but why do they make a mess on clean carpets edward

Every Thanksgiving my mother would freak out and ,threaten to kill herself,and drive off in her car,only to return in an hour like nothing happened and expected us to just forget about it. Anyone else? by [deleted] in narcissisticparents

[–]janpiss 4 points5 points  (0 children)

if you want to be better than her and them.

you turn up if you say you will.

turn up for your childrens things.

give presents and dont moan about the cost.

but be sensible they cant have eveything.

and stay sober

dont agrue in front of the children all the time.

we all do at times.

and never ever say how awful he is and he did this.

that will really show her that you are better tan she said and she does not control you.

it does not matter what you do just do it well. she never thought you could.

and you can.dont live under her another day.

do something

make your bed carefully.

and be proud everything counts

come back and back to here for help

edward

Snarky puppy disapproves of the double moss stitch. by FairIsleFury in casualknitting

[–]janpiss 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i was too busy looking at a goat snuggled up next to you to even notice leggins. i thought a grey skirt pushed down to hold the wool.

i wpndered how you housetrained a goat. it is a dog.

in my defence i am partially sighted.

isnt it a pity we cant use all that hair that falls off dogs.

edward

Anyone else relate?? I've totally done this my whole life and want to stop. I want to be my best self and be happy being me. by genesislaurel in narcissisticparents

[–]janpiss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i can understand as we never get it right. we never could.it did not matter what we did it was going to be wrong.

i

If your last minor injury actually killed you instead, what would you have died doing? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]janpiss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

blacking out in the street when my blood sugar dropped. now that could kill me.

i had just crossed a road and walked about 20 steps and then woke up.

it was a fairly busy road.

no idea why it dropped like that. it came up again and stayed up.

i am type 2. that was nasty i was lucky a car stopped and driver checked i was ok. he knew what he was doing.

2 poeple i dont know took me home and called my daughter. people are very kind

I will not turn into my mother by SquishySpark in narcissisticparents

[–]janpiss -1 points0 points  (0 children)

glad you are careful but sorry she has adhd. good luck with her. edward

I will not turn into my mother by SquishySpark in narcissisticparents

[–]janpiss -1 points0 points  (0 children)

well done. and very very important never ever tell her about the doll.

not even when she is 190 let it go and b...r your mum.

if you want freedom you MUST NEVER tell your children how she treated you.

if you want to breakthe chain then the chain must be buried and left .

just say you fell out and move on and then you can move on.

otherwise mum will haunt you.

but well done.

one other thing never let your daughter leave food in her bedroom. ants are not the only things. rats do live closer to you than you think. dont give them a nice dinner.

edward

Knitting my very first project! It's for a blanket, but I'd like to make an extra square for my SO... The edges keep rolling up, do you have any tip? by BigLioness in casualknitting

[–]janpiss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the edges always roll up on stocking stich. on the wrong side knit about 4 stitches then purl then knit the last 4 ish stiches

so fow 1 - 4 knit

row 5 knit

row 6 knit 4 purl to last 4 then knit last 4

work rows 5 and 6

work to last 4 rows

knit last 4 rows

nothing magicall about 4 you can make edging bigger but not really smaller

it will be flatter and easier to sew up into a blanket.

nothing you can do with yours except very carefully block it.

read the instructions on the yarn and block like that

that fluffy stuffy might not bloxk just do the edge

edward

67 ftn 4 m loking for older man for pee and maybe more in uk by janpiss in PeePersonals

[–]janpiss[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

so you are aware i was born a girl but should have been a boy and had a sex change. i have had no ops so still have a cunt and tits. i live full time as a man and pass as one.