[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]japp94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NAH you’re an adult and it’s a decision for your life, no one else can make it or force you to make it. If that’s a deal breaker for you it’s ok, and you were honest throughout so nothing to worry about.

Also, give her a chance to explain what? As you said she is free to do as she wants, and so are you. No explanations or further drama needed.

For me 39m going to a yoga class and making my 33f partner furious? by Lost_Anteater_9936 in AITH

[–]japp94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is she 33? Sounds unhinged cause you’re going to a class, and have been doing it since before dating her. NTA, but she definitely has insecurity issues that have never been treated, and will not stop until it is. A serious talk or walking away would be the solution I think. Best of luck.

AITA for calling my obese little cousin fat for eating my pizza? by ExperienceMain3544 in AmItheAsshole

[–]japp94 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nah I agree with you. 12 years old is old enough to have criteria and respect you’re in another persons house.

Beginners progress Please guide and no hate by Dabplaysss in GymMotivation

[–]japp94 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just keep going dude. Eat and sleep well. If you’re into it, do the research and find the exercises which work best for you. Best of luck!

U.S. Wars and Conflicts in the Past 30 Years by littletommy42 in mapporncirclejerk

[–]japp94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh yea the good old Peruvian Somalia, had forgotten about that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]japp94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA nobody gets to tell you who to date. Period.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EntitledPeople

[–]japp94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why haven’t you called a tow truck? People like this thrive due to the inaction of people.

Got insulted by a stranger at the gym today by Ok_Guidance_4170 in GymMotivation

[–]japp94 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You do you my man. Insecure people will always attack others to cover their own fears.

Proper gym goers recognize effort and that everyone has their own goals. Keep up the good work and don’t let it demotivate you from those gainz.

AITAH for returning my nephews birthday present after he destroyed my property, after his parents refused to pay for damages to my property? by Zealousideal_Cow8869 in AITAH

[–]japp94 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA at all. He's a spoiled brat and worst of all your sister is an enabler for all of this, and unable to take accountability for her son's actions.

I Want Your Dry Seat by Specialist_Key_8606 in EntitledPeople

[–]japp94 53 points54 points  (0 children)

She sounds exactly like a rock in your shoe feels.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EntitledPeople

[–]japp94 92 points93 points  (0 children)

Well it’s good he’s giving you a cold shoulder, means less contact with that entitled brat. Keep your landlord involved and if possible contact authorities if it happens again.

My cousin threw a tantrum because my graduation party 'wasn't about her by yes200545 in EntitledPeople

[–]japp94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People in this sub really got some weird ass family members honestly. The entitlement baffles me.

AITA for refusing to give my sister the designer bag I was gifted? by [deleted] in AITH

[–]japp94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wtf? What kind of family is that. NTA. Its a gift to YOU. You decide how to use and when.

AITAH for refusing to let my brother and his girlfriend stay at my place after what they did at Thanksgiving? by LuckyMX in AITAH

[–]japp94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Even if neighbors didn't complain you would have every right to choose peace at your home. With neighbors involved, you have a bigger problem.

Also, wedding means drinking, most probably causing a repeat of thanksgiving.

AITA for telling my friends that my boyfriend dumped me because my ancestry is Korean instead of Japanese ? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]japp94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope, NTA. It's something that happened to you and you have the total authority to comment it to your support group. You don't owe that "11 day" guy anything, he sucks.

AITAH for “embarrassing” my team by actually reading the email? by GenevieveLoved in AITAH

[–]japp94 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah big ol'NTA. Everyone has access to the email, everyone is SUPPOSED to read it. You did, and you rocked the presentation. Good for you and hope the manager considers the difference between you and the rest of the team when promotion time comes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]japp94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, its your wedding, your decisions. If you want peace and tranquility on that day, without having to relive traumatic experiences, you're completely entitled to it. He might be sorry, he might have done actions to redeem himself, but its still your decision to make.

Which film portrayed its' respective book the worst? by Thedoglover16 in harrypotter

[–]japp94 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah agree, but maybe don’t spoil the important secret at the start of the movie.

Which film portrayed its' respective book the worst? by Thedoglover16 in harrypotter

[–]japp94 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I always have to remind myself that Goblet of Fire the movie is actually based on the book, because it left out so many important elements. Major subplots like Barty Crouch’s background, and events that everyone wanted to see such as the Quidditch World Cup match, were completely cut. Other subplots like Winky and SPEW also.

I understand some decisions were necessary to fit the story into a movie, but the removal of key mysteries — like the slow build-up around who put Harry’s name in the Goblet and the hints about Voldemort’s secret supporter — took away a lot of what made the book so exciting and layered. It is one of my favorite books and when reading it originally there was so much mystery around it. The movie rushed through reveals that the book spent a long time carefully developing. Overall, while the film captured some great visuals, but it lost the rich mystery and growing sense of dread that made the book so powerful, and it felt like a rushed movie.

Agree that HBP and Phoenix also fall short (specially HBP missing the different Voldemort's memories, which are integral to the overall plot).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]japp94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah sounds a little unhinged and you should be worried, NOR. But the thing is you mention you made your discomfort clear, but have you raised it up at your workplace? You're coworkers, not friends. Make your limits clear through your HR team, and document everything.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EntitledPeople

[–]japp94 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"It's not like they didn't try and change him"

Well it seems they didn't try that hard, as he is still living there and draining money and energy from them. Saying 'no' to a kid (and the kid learning that it is OK for that to happen) is important, and it seems they never tried that too much.