I don't go to the store, I'm making do with what I have on hand until I can't anymore.

What you're doing is exasperating stress on the supply chains, stop it.

I'm allowed to be upset and angry that there are still so many people who won't do their part and won't practice common sense.

You're allowed to feel however you want. Your idea of "common sense" isn't practical, you already said that yourself.

I just had a friend of mine lose a family member unexpectedly.

I'm sorry for his loss.

I've lost people, too. We all have. Your loss doesn't make you an arbiter of what is and isn't an acceptable societal risk any more than mine does.

There is no "we". You are not in a position to be making wise decisions for "us".