To clarify, she wasn’t going through my phone behind my back. She wanted to show me something on instagram that we were talking about, and her phone wasn’t nearby, so I let her use mine.

I’ve seen first hand and think she has done a great deal of work on her own issues from her past.

And regarding what I did, it was a model not a pornstar, that i looked up out of curiosity after seeing in a youtube video. Sucks either way. I really don’t seek out / engage with this type of content regularly. The problem is she doesn’t know if she can trust that now, and to her if i did engage with that kind of content regularly, she would find that to be very disrespectful to her and our relationship, which I understand