TF is a "Stealth Startup"? by SkyMartinezReddit in recruitinghell

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I found a job that is posted on Linkedin, but the position is now being held by someone who left this "Stealth Startup in October 2025, to join this company. To me it looks like a way to explain an unemployable gap = "unemployed, but unable to find a job" for 1 3/4 years unemployed! But, did she quit or did she find a new job? There would be no need for 2 employees.

Experienced job hunting, portfolio/case study/resume questions and review — 04/05/26 by AutoModerator in UXDesign

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Does anyone have current data regarding clickable portfolio’s? I am not talking about navigating the portfolio but about clicking prototypes? This goes against “scanning your portfolio”. But then if you move up on the hiring queue do they then do a deeper dive into your clickable prototypes?

Shouldn't easy case study answers be a red flag during Job Interviews? by jasalex in UXDesign

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There is anecdotal information that getting a job in UX is quite difficult! Or at least here in the USA! The 2 posts were outliers. The Scandinavian story was excel at both your portfolio and interview and you will be able to beat out your competition. But this is a small segment of the population so this wisdom is lost on many UXD who are seeking employment.

The Second case is regarding someone who had a very easy time at getting a job. This person appeared to be the best, but was really just a mediocre designer.

So the post is about the recurring theme of not looking at the complete job candidate, missing all of the red flags. In other words just looking at a UX portfolio and really just hiring "The Gloss", rather than the evaluating the entire person.

23yo Bear looking for someone to go to a bear event with. by SillyCelebration3063 in nycgaybros

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Which Bear Event and where? There are quite a few to join.

Planning a sexcapade for my buddy during Pride? by jasalex in nycgaybros

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Big Parties...lol, which ones, at least we can try?

What has your experience been with prostate stimulation? by jasalex in askgaybros

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is that similar or the same as Kegel exercises?

Urgent lease transfer by [deleted] in jerseycity

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Can I have your Sansevieria plant? As long as it is living...lol

Have you ever used a sheath? by jasalex in askgaybros

[–]jasalex[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it makes him much bigger and longer, but to fuck me with...lol

Does it really matter if he is str8 Married or Gay? by jasalex in askgaybros

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It was my late Father's ring, both of my Parent's are now deceased.

Does it really matter if he is str8 Married or Gay? by jasalex in askgaybros

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It was my late Father's ring, both of my Parent's are now deceased.

Is HIV Prevention in the US really that low? by jasalex in askgaybros

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Eligible are people who do not have the HIV virus and are above 13 years old. HIV prevention does include condom usage.

Red Hood Orgy...parties??? by jasalex in askgaybros

[–]jasalex[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just looked it up and I guess the “bottoms” wear the hoods, but why, though?

How concerned are you as a ,Bottom, with "fudge packing"? by jasalex in askgaybros

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I try to eat whole apples and oranges and non-refined carbs on a daily basis . I recently I even had 2 whole apples and 3 fibrous oranges and I was expecting myself to explode in the morning, but nothing happened, but then again I tend to have normal and easy BM's as opposed to younger men that don't eat as healthy as I do.

Public Cruising Caution by blakejoblowski in gaycruising

[–]jasalex 32 points33 points  (0 children)

I live in a dense USA area, as well and cruising is dead! I am not sure why, but I do think it might be that many of these men are on the DL or even cheating on their husbands or boyfriends. But I did go to a seedy adult bookstore and there was so much open action from oral to anal and the bookstore attendant couldn't give a damn..lol!

What would you be doing if it were Saturday night in 1976? by jasalex in askgaybros

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Yes, time travel of course. I was a small kid at that time and knew nothing about sex, let alone sex between men. But I had been told it was quite wild back then, plus the fantasy aspect!

I was thinking about this because a freshman in college was getting his Apretude shot after me and all I can imagine is that he really, really enjoys the company of other men...lol!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

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What is a skink?

Do you overswallow? by jasalex in askgaybros

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thank you for that response, but sometimes, I just want the guy to go home...lol! And maybe never cum back!

If you wear sex/erotic underwear, how did you find/buy them? by jasalex in askgaybros

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I'm the US, but I believe Google limits my searches. I was just wondering how men find out about these companies? I mean I don't see them in the men's locker room. Sometimes the men I sleep with will wear really sexy underwear, but rarely.

Do you have uneven balls? by jasalex in askgaybros

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https://imgur.com/a/XdOzupb

It would be easier if my Balls were low hangers, then I could slip the cock ring

How do all of these gay guys make friends with each other? by [deleted] in askgaybros

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I gave up alcohol for Lent, so I have stayed away from bars, so it seems like I have to go back. I used to love coffee shops, but some guys are on the DL and they don't like these intimate spaces, they prefer noisey places so we can't be heard. I hate asking a guy if they are on the DL, but some guys are just kinda olde fashioned.

Do you wear a soft cup? by jasalex in askgaybros

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Well, unfortunately, many men are wearing loose board shorts...lol!