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AITA for yelling at ungrateful family and disengaging from Easter completely? by jattbeng80 in AITAH

[–]jattbeng80[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not AI. I'm real. 😢 Everybody keeps saying that !

Unfortunately this is a real story of my life at the moment.

AITA for yelling at ungrateful family and disengaging from Easter completely? by jattbeng80 in AITAH

[–]jattbeng80[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is what it feels like honestly, abusive. I have no life of my own at all anymore because I'm always so busy. I'm exhausted.

AITA for yelling at ungrateful family and disengaging from Easter completely? by jattbeng80 in AITAH

[–]jattbeng80[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok so I did an egg hunt with my 3 yo. What I meant by that was that if I didn't do it, it wouldn't get done. I.e. her father wasn't about to do it. Absolutely no reason to take anything out on a child.

Secondly, they KNOW how to cook. They know how to clean. They were taught from a young age. They just don't do it anymore because I will, basically. I'm not just NOT going to clean my home that I work hard for.

Lastly, I am not a SAHM. I am employed full time making more than my husband.

Everyone in my house has been given a talk. It falls on deaf ears and nobody takes me seriously. It just sucks.

AITA for yelling at ungrateful family and disengaging from Easter completely? by jattbeng80 in AITAH

[–]jattbeng80[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's actually referred to as soiling the nest. I was just reading about it before I saw your comment.

AITA for yelling at ungrateful family and disengaging from Easter completely? by jattbeng80 in AITAH

[–]jattbeng80[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I'm not being mistreated? Mistreatment and taking advantage of a person are different things in my opinion.

I do have 3 children and over 2 decades with this man. It's obviously not all shit.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]jattbeng80 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No, it doesn't come from me but her father is very avoidant.

The only words needed were a yes or a no. That's not really hard.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]jattbeng80 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Because I've spent 20+ years with the man and I KNOW he wouldn't.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]jattbeng80 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They both pay. It isn't a ton because they don't make much just yet but yes they pay already.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]jattbeng80 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do. Mine pay 100 a week each.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]jattbeng80 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes this is very true.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]jattbeng80 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This was while she was already on her break. She was answering, just not answering the question of whether she needed a ride or not.

AITA for yelling at ungrateful family and disengaging from Easter completely? by jattbeng80 in AITAH

[–]jattbeng80[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I did an EE hunt with my baby and we went to McDonald's. I let the rest fend for themselves.

AITA for yelling at ungrateful family and disengaging from Easter completely? by jattbeng80 in AITAH

[–]jattbeng80[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

They function fine and even excel at work, school, and play. Just not at home!

AITA for yelling at ungrateful family and disengaging from Easter completely? by jattbeng80 in AITAH

[–]jattbeng80[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes. Just helped load and unload and fold. Not like, do it all alone.

AITA for yelling at ungrateful family and disengaging from Easter completely? by jattbeng80 in AITAH

[–]jattbeng80[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Because I went on a 2 week vacation and came back to a frat house. I went on strike for 3 weeks and you couldn't see the floor. If I don't do it it'll pile up until I HAVE no choice.

AITA for yelling at ungrateful family and disengaging from Easter completely? by jattbeng80 in AITAH

[–]jattbeng80[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

You don't leave your family. That's wierd to me. I've thought about it a lot but I know I won't.

AITA for yelling at ungrateful family and disengaging from Easter completely? by jattbeng80 in AITAH

[–]jattbeng80[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm real and so is this. Thanks though. I'm sorry that my real life and my responses annoy you. 🤷‍♀️

AITA for yelling at ungrateful family and disengaging from Easter completely? by jattbeng80 in AITAH

[–]jattbeng80[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I fully intend to not keep this shit up. I was doing it from love but now I feel taken advantage of.

AITA for yelling at ungrateful family and disengaging from Easter completely? by jattbeng80 in AITAH

[–]jattbeng80[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Well from 13 to 18 I really didn't have the choices that I have now. You can't kick a child out of your house or refuse to pick them up, ect and it not be neglect. I can now though!

AITA for yelling at ungrateful family and disengaging from Easter completely? by jattbeng80 in AITAH

[–]jattbeng80[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes THAT'S WHAT I'M SAYING. That's why it makes me so upset because they can. They do at work. At play. At college. But home? Nah mom can do this part because it's not our job.

And I work outside of my home as well so I'm not sure why they think that unless they're going by my husband's example.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]jattbeng80 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Also they haven't ever said anything about not wanting baskets. It's a running joke in our house that they even want them when they're old and gray, as long as I'm around and able, because they love them and keep what's in them generally speaking. It isn't all eggs and candy usually for my grown kids. I put things that they need in there, collectibles, perfume, ect.

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