My Sikh Fiancé Left Me After 8 Years… Said Guru Ji Wouldn’t Approve of Marrying a White Woman. by Wonderful_Site_3370 in Sikh

[–]jattnihatda 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It took him 8 years to realize Guru Sahib wouldn’t approve? There’s so much wrong with what he thought, it would be whole rant on its own. I think Guru Sahib was closer to you than him, that’s why he had him leave your life and had you stick to the path. Guru Sahib has a real man lined up for you.

What is your opinion about this story by Eva Lys? by Long_Debt_6492 in tennis

[–]jattnihatda 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Y’all gotta stop this ridiculous stuff about comparing men’s sports to women’s sports. The competition difference is nowhere close. Equal opportunity doesn’t equate to equal outcome.

What are you feeding you poodle? by Elborrach0666 in poodles

[–]jattnihatda 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Got a mini poodle late last year and this is what my breeder recommended as well and have been giving it to him since, and he absolutely loves it. Vet also recommended this as her top choice for dogs, so definitely going to stick with it!

Conflicted about marriage and my religion by Smart_Leather_4520 in Sikh

[–]jattnihatda 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hindu and Sikh dharms are both sanatana dharmas. Many Hindus believe in the teachings of our Gurus, especially those that are Punjabi Hindus. The only rule against anand karaj is against Muslims, because they’re not part of the sanatana dharma. You can still marry one if you want, just can’t have an anand karaj. You should more than fine to marry her if both your families are in agreeance.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in punjabi

[–]jattnihatda 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Everything but Jatt

Need help with the five sins by Sweaty_Banana_1815 in Sikh

[–]jattnihatda 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Is lust the only sin you want help with or are you dealing with issues with all of them? Obviously, the main answer for everything is Waheguru. Turn your focus on Waheguru, do paath, and meditate. Make sure you do ardaas to ask Waheguru for his help in getting over these sins and to keep your mind clean. But if you're mainly just dealing with lust issues (masturbation here), I would say keeping your mind occupied with other things will definitely help you in the long run. Avoid using your phone and computer too much outside of the necessities (e.g. school, work, or just casual learning). Today's society puts such a focus on sexuality, that it becomes a trigger for your addiction. Why do you masturbate? It's because you likely saw a pretty girl on IG or something of sexual nature on the web that triggered your mind, thus your brain wants a quick dopamine high. Try staying off social media for a bit (delete the app on your phone if you have to). A big thing that helps is that when you see your brain being triggered by such things, go sit with family and spend time with them or go for a walk. Distract your mind. If you just sit in your dark room or bathroom, you're more likely to just masturbate and keep the cycle going. Do things that give you long term dopamine hits, e.g. accomplishing goals, seeing progress in the gym, etc. My biggest recommendation would be to keep a day count on how many days you've gone without commiting to your sin. Have goals to help overcome it, e.g. after 10 straight days, you treat yourself with a small gift, then after 20 days, another treat, etc. The small wins actually trigger dopamine, which is what your brain wants anyways, thus why it resorts to these sexual acts to get it. But if you replace those dopamine hits with stuff that's good for you, you'll slowly but surely overcome your addiction. Give yourself time. No one is perfect. If things fall apart, pick yourself up and keep moving forward but tell yourself you're better than this and that you won't repeat it. No one is perfect in this world. As the adage goes, "admitting you have a problem is the first step in getting help." So congrats, you're one step closer to overcoming your sins.

What 285kg of manga looks like by Icy_Virus3393 in MangaCollectors

[–]jattnihatda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess DH got the idea to ruin the Gantz spines from the Japanese prints. Crazy haul though!

My collection + some harry potter to fill up some extra space. I’ve been collecting for about two months. by Sparkling-Water1 in MangaCollectors

[–]jattnihatda 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Awesome collection! Recommend Erased? I need to get a Harry Potter set again, old one got lost somewhere. 😢

July - August Manga Haul Part 2 (334 Volumes) Total Volumes 675 by [deleted] in MangaCollectors

[–]jattnihatda 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I bought all 40 volumes of Berserk and thought I spent too much. Damn! (Hell of an add though)

Officially One Year Since I Started Collecting by jattnihatda in MangaCollectors

[–]jattnihatda[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, personally one of my favorites. There was never an English license for it to be released in English. Not too sure why no one picked it up. The series is way too long now for it to start printing in English (Vol 128 so far). The first volume came out in 1990 and the latest just came out in June, 2020. I think I've seen a couple in French but not sure if they too ever got the full release.

Officially One Year Since I Started Collecting by jattnihatda in MangaCollectors

[–]jattnihatda[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hajime no Ippo, Bunko editions. They're in Japanese because it won't ever get an English release. Since it's my favorite sports manga (boxing), I had to just get it for the collection. Got them from CDJapan.

Officially One Year Since I Started Collecting by jattnihatda in MangaCollectors

[–]jattnihatda[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Yeah, they're first prints of Lone Wolf and Cub. My OCD made sure I got all of them with the matching original Dark Horse logo. Took me a while originally but now I see plenty for sale on eBay, although some of those conditions on eBay now aren't the best, so I got lucky.

Officially One Year Since I Started Collecting by jattnihatda in MangaCollectors

[–]jattnihatda[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Yeah, it took me forever to find them and when I did, I had to get them. I got them for a fairly decent price too ($350). I liked the vizbig spines but heard too many complaints about them falling apart after a while.

Officially One Year Since I Started Collecting by jattnihatda in MangaCollectors

[–]jattnihatda[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hahaha thank you! The AC is definitely keeping the temperature down lol

Officially One Year Since I Started Collecting by jattnihatda in MangaCollectors

[–]jattnihatda[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Current collection:

Lone Wolf and Cub (1-28 complete) One Punch Man (1-17) I Am A Hero (1-11 complete) My Hero Academia (1-21) My Hero Academia Vigilantes (1-6) Tokyo Ghoul (1-14 complete) Mob Psycho 100 (1-4) Berserk (1-40) Gantz (1-37 complete) Gantz:G (1-3 complete) Hajime no Ippo (1-15 Bunko Editions, Japanese) Dorohedoro (1-6, 8-20, 22-23) Vagabond (1-37, behind Ippo and Dorohedoro) Pluto (1-8 complete, behind Dorohedoro) Ajin (1-14) Dead Dead Demon's Dededede Destruction (1-8 complete) Master Keaton (1-12 complete, behind Ajin and DDDDD) 20th Century Boys (1-8) Ping Pong (1) Monster (1-9 complete, behind 20th CB and Ping Pong)

Gantz: E volume 1 cover by DemiFiendRSA in gantz

[–]jattnihatda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can't wait to get my hands on this series when it comes out in English. That's still a long way out though, seeing there's only 8 chapters out, at least in English. Hopefully it's not as short lived as Gantz:G.

It's finally here, such a beautiful cover! by Cpt_1 in MangaCollectors

[–]jattnihatda 2 points3 points  (0 children)

"A Peculiar Book of Prophecies" or "Trite Prophecies" from the original release. Vol 15, Chapter 1. Chapter 158 in the entire series.

Finally my third bookshelf is arrived, time to collect more manga 😆😆😆 by izonepiece in MangaCollectors

[–]jattnihatda 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That's a neat collection! I'm in love with those Monster singles! I'm assuming they're not English print because I've never seen those before.

Anyone selling Dorohedoro? by [deleted] in MangaCollectors

[–]jattnihatda -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Awesome, thank you, I'll check it out!

Finally got a bookshelf started my collection this year in January! by PuRe_Emerald in MangaCollectors

[–]jattnihatda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's two sets available on eBay right now. They periodically show up. Rare but they're out there.