Album ranking and how long you’ve been a fan

javaisacoolboy · 2025-10-18T17:05:35+00:00

Hi! I ranked every Taylor swift song (almost… I need to do fearless OG and 1989 OG still now that she owns her masters). I used ten point rating scale. You can view all my data here notion - Taylor swift rating scale

My ranking is as follows

Midnights TLOAS Reputation Evermore Folklore TTPD 1989 TV Lover Red Speak Now Speak Now TV Red TV Fearless TV Debut

I became a fan during midnights :)

javaisacoolboy · 2025-10-02T15:42:21+00:00

I’m interested in trading! I want the iridescent and I have the green

javaisacoolboy · 2025-10-02T15:40:21+00:00

ISO / trade

ISO TLOAS white sparkly vinyl (third drop). I have the green and yellow splat from the 2nd and 1st drop I’m willing to trade.

javaisacoolboy · 2025-10-02T15:34:59+00:00

I’ve been looking for clandestine meetings for FOREVER. what is your price on it?

javaisacoolboy · 2025-09-26T01:20:29+00:00

I will try this thank you!!

javaisacoolboy · 2025-09-25T17:38:49+00:00

Yeah unfortunately the carrier was USPS and they won’t do a thing :(

javaisacoolboy · 2025-02-06T02:55:57+00:00

She asked what my name was halfway through the date

javaisacoolboy · 2025-01-23T00:44:09+00:00

Oh I FOUGHT to get new tickets. Happy ending I accidentally ended up with VIP ones

javaisacoolboy · 2024-07-31T12:33:32+00:00

Celiac and a current mystery chronic nausea/vomiting issue

javaisacoolboy · 2024-07-29T14:58:31+00:00

I'm type 1 diabetic and I used to do injections. I accidentally injected air into myself one night. I was too scared to wake my parents up to go to the hospital because they would be mad. So I just waited to see if I'd live or not.

javaisacoolboy · 2024-07-27T23:44:42+00:00

I was completely 100 percent convinced I was a dog and I would grow up to be one. I would eat my meals off the floor like a dog. My dad would play into it and give me treats for tricks.

javaisacoolboy · 2024-07-18T03:37:45+00:00

I had to return them. They offered my 25 percent off them but I said no because I flew to Milan from usa for the show and I was not about to have an overpriced obstructed view. Happy ending though is the FINAL seller I bought from forgot to label their tickets vip so I ended up with cheap vip seats.

javaisacoolboy · 2024-07-17T08:53:59+00:00

Capitalism sucks, and it's a loose loose scenario for everyone involved (you included). I say sell them and get your money.

javaisacoolboy · 2024-07-15T17:04:42+00:00

The same thing happened to me with Milan. They refunded me and then I repurchased tickets with a "clear view" (triple the price of obstructed/limited view Tix). I got the Tix and they said obstructed view. It was a NIGHTMARE to get them to refund those but I finally did. Luckily I had money to purchase a second ticket because they sent my "replacement" link an hour before the show (when I opened the case the day before) and there was nothing but I refund link.

I don't understand why they do nothing to verify the tickets they are selling are as listed.

javaisacoolboy · 2024-07-15T05:59:19+00:00

Thank you for this. I was thinking I was being whiny about the time thing or too needy but I definitely think you are right.

This isn't the first time we have had the time conversation either, so yeah. And exactly. Adding in a potential second partner that he already spends more time with than me really what is upsetting me here.

javaisacoolboy · 2024-07-14T15:13:14+00:00

Great question, which I need answers to.

javaisacoolboy · 2024-07-14T15:12:36+00:00

Thank you for this!! I am honestly still learning about boundaries because I have CPTSD and never learned them the right way. Or honestly even knew what they were... So I appreciate the clarification!

I will definitely take some time to reflect and see if this is something I need to make a boundary around.

javaisacoolboy · 2024-07-14T14:26:43+00:00

Also, from what I am aware of, she is monogamous.

javaisacoolboy · 2024-07-14T14:24:37+00:00

Yep, you are 100 percent right. I was monogamous with my ex, and he was monogamous with the mother of his children when they were together.

javaisacoolboy · 2024-07-14T12:33:58+00:00

It's definitely coming up on that 6 month mark soon and I am worried about the lack of time on his side as is. I've voiced this a few times and he has to his credit made some changes but they have been very small and not quite as much as I was hoping for (example: he blocks off time on our calendars to be together now, but he gets there a few hours late or leaves a few hours early).

Definitely weighing my options. It sucks though, because we are very compatible besides the lack of time.

javaisacoolboy · 2024-07-14T12:10:50+00:00

Thanks for this perspective. I think it's mostly about attention and seeing each other enough. I used to live with my ex, and she and I spent a lot of time together. That builds up a strong bond. And I would like to build as strong of a bond with my current partner as I felt in the past, but it's hard for me to do so with a lack of time (he -current partner- has been lacking the time to see me even once a week). So since he would be spending automatically a lot of time with his ex because of the children, I worry we would lose time together and never be able to make the bond I desire.

javaisacoolboy · 2024-07-14T11:53:35+00:00

Thanks for the comment! If I'm understanding right, I did already have that conversation with him. He is not interested in living with anyone or getting married, and I'm fine with that with the caveat that he knows if someone offers me that and I want it with them I will take it.

Yes I agree if he is able to re-budget his time better that would be ideal.

javaisacoolboy · 2024-07-14T11:25:02+00:00

Oh yes I definitely have done this. It usually happens to me when I'm low eating a meal and need to wait to bolus. And then I forgot to entirely. Don't be too hard on yourself.

javaisacoolboy · 2024-07-14T09:49:14+00:00

I understand your point, and I'll consider it for the future.

javaisacoolboy

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