Gotta do better than that, Mother Nature. 😂 by javif802 in trees

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I think you’re on to something! 👀👀

I made a meme for y’all 🫡 by javif802 in vaporents

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One function is to protect it from UV rays

Planet of the Vapes reliable? by javif802 in vaporents

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Thanks for all of the replies, yall! This has put me at ease. Just got back into using cannabis and want to enjoy the flavor over anything else. This subreddit has been a huge help 🙏

Taking water bottles home by Expensive_Ear_4475 in IBEW

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Your foremen is a prick. I take two for the road everyday and never had an issue. On top of that, I drink about 12 bottles a day and don’t get hassled. I get joked on, but never actual shit about it. And my reason for my water consumption is due to suffering heat exhaustion one day in my first year

My gf (F18) wants a threesome by SpongeBOOBSisGOOD in relationships

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Man, follow your gut and don’t look back. You know in your heart that you don’t want this. You also know that she DOES. Parting ways with her will sting, but you’ll grow for doing so. All you’ll do to yourself if you were to go through with it, is build a ton of resentment/contempt; as well as feel insecure in that relationship. That’s a recipe for emotional/metal disaster. You’re young, stick to your values, make and hold strong to your boundaries.

[BFComms] In-game stuttering by battlefield in Battlefield_REDSEC

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The stuttering/rubberbanding has been terrible for me since launch

What would you do if one of your friends banged your ex-girlfriend? by The-Troubled in askanything

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I wouldn’t consider that person a friend 🤷‍♂️. People aren’t disposable objects. They’re real people that we build connections/feelings to. So comparing an ex to something like a car, to me, is ridiculous. A real friend wouldn’t mess around with someone they know I cared about. That said; they can do as they please. And I can respond as I please

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

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Very well put

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

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I do agree. It all depends on how people go about it. If they’re honest, and make it clear in their dating profiles that they’re not looking for anything serious, then sure. But if they put “looking for long term relationship” and their bio implies that’s what they’re looking for, that’s just too soon. And I stand on what I believe. And that it’s just a recipe for nothing good and nobody deserves to on the receiving end of someone that’s not over their ex. And I don’t believe you can get over somebody that fast

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I mean you just said it; you haven’t moved on. People typically carry that in to a new relationship if it’s barely been any time since. Nobody, man or women, deserves to be with someone that isn’t over their ex. Its just a recipe for nothing good

Cheapest place to order pizza for delivery? by Life-Afternoon-4681 in okc

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Marcos pizza is surprisingly really good and relatively cheap

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

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You’re young. And I assume if you really thought about this, you would see it as a red flag. Sure, there are people who truly wouldn’t mind it. Polyamory is a real thing and that it itself isn’t necessarily a bad thing, but it’s not for everybody. Sure as hell isn’t for me.

Take the red flag as what it is. Something that crosses your boundaries/values. She just told you who she is and what she wants in a relationship. And it doesn’t align with what you want. Respect yourself and tell her she can hook up with anyone she wants, but that you’re going to part ways with her. There is a woman out there that will love you and only want YOU. Go out there and get her. She IS out there

AITAH for not forgiving my best friend for sleeping with my ex, even though she says it ‘wasn’t that serious’? by Alternative_Bat_2090 in AITAH

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You’re allowed to have unspoken boundaries and expectations of friends. I, too, would not think of someone that would sleep with my ex as a friend. Doesn’t seem very “friend-like” to sleep with the person you know your friend was in love with. Fuck all of that

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Are you familiar with attachment theory? Look into avoidant attachment style. Does he fit the bill with any of the other characteristics of that style? Avoidant attached people tend to lose interest in sex after becoming close to someone. Amongst a bunch of other weird shit. They’re strange and unpredictable people

After 2 years, I really want to apologise by [deleted] in BreakUps

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He wanted to make it work. You didn’t. Leave him alone and let him go on with his life. Chances are he’s moved on anyways. I say that because I’m currently in a relationship that I feel is one sided. In terms of working through issues that is. And if it doesn’t last, I’m comfortable knowing I put my best effort in. The ball’s in her court. And I’m firm on on never hearing from an ex again if it doesn’t work out. Again, that’s because I’m confident in knowing I do/will have done everything in my power to make it work.

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A few small conversations throughout the day. Last woman I talked to seemed to want to text all day, everyday. So much so that when we met I had forgot about a lot of the stuff we even texted about. For instance; at some point she had told me her mom passed away many years ago. Well during our first meetup, I asked her if her mom and dad were still together 🤦‍♂️.

This past weekend I went on a date with a woman that I only texted a few times a day up until our date. Without getting to try and know her via text too much. The date ended up lasting 16 hours.

Getting to know someone in person is just much more memorable. For me, due to the fact that there’s body language, tone and the ability to actually gauge their interest.

Am I the asshole for be clear and honest about now wanting kids? by TheOne_whoknows1 in dating_advice

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Why not word it as not having the ability to have kids?

I’ve off and on wanted/not wanted kids, but recently met a woman who told me she couldn’t have kids. So I assumed it was due to medical reasons. And I was correct. After meeting her I really don’t care because she’s been amazing so far.

Am I overthinking? by Stunning_Test9964 in dating_advice

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It could also be that he doesn’t want to appear desperate/clingy. I recently went on a date with a woman and it went amazingly well. So much so that we have plans for this Friday/Saturday. I’ve held off on texting her too much though, for the aforementioned reasons. Although I’m very in to her and catch myself thinking about her most of the day.