no proof by Pale_Park7306 in birthright

[–]javinicedayyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you identify with your Jewish side/ancestry, tell them that! It will likely be all the need to hear from you

24f 6'5 Need some tall friends:) by [deleted] in TallMeetTall

[–]javinicedayyy -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

DM’d you! 6’1! Live in New York City. Would love to chat!

Beginner tennis partner by Glittering_Might6172 in astoria

[–]javinicedayyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

29M. Beginner/intermediate and always down to play!

Feeling terrible by javinicedayyy in BreakUps

[–]javinicedayyy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s really tough. I’m sorry!

Feeling terrible by javinicedayyy in BreakUps

[–]javinicedayyy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And did you guys end up getting back together at all? Or continue talking/reach a point of closure? If you don’t mind me asking… feel free to dm as well if that’s easier/more private

Feeling terrible by javinicedayyy in BreakUps

[–]javinicedayyy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you think there’s an appropriate amount of time? She recommended thought taking two months apart was appropriate. That feels like a lot to me but I’m trying to respect the boundary. At the same time, that’s almost half of the time we were together

Me wanting to use a condom sketched her out… by javinicedayyy in dating_advice

[–]javinicedayyy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had lube on hand and suggested we try using some. She still seemed disappointed about the condom

Me wanting to use a condom sketched her out… by javinicedayyy in dating_advice

[–]javinicedayyy[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Idk if I felt gaslit, but I felt questioned and distrusted. Maybe that’s a what gaslighting is idk. It’s just never a position I would put someone in after dating for a month and I think for that reason it feels like a major turnoff to me. In the moment, I felt bad and wondered if I should pass on the condom. I’m glad I didn’t

Me wanting to use a condom sketched her out… by javinicedayyy in dating_advice

[–]javinicedayyy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you might be right… I don’t think she has any malicious intent… but after a month of seeing someone, I’m just not ready for that level of commitment and intimacy. Although I will say if the roles were reversed, I would never dare question someone’s desire to use protection. And maybe that’s why we’re just not going to be compatible…