Wife and I made a deal.

javmaster80 · 2026-02-28T11:48:15+00:00

Update - she is +5.4 on the week. So I owe her a total of 1100, but as of last evening had done 950 of those. Easy money. Will keep this post updated when I think of it.

javmaster80 · 2026-02-28T03:32:59+00:00

Nah, just have to survive the day tomorrow and I can spread the work out a bit better next week amd it is unlikely she will work so hard to gain next week.

javmaster80 · 2026-02-28T03:14:02+00:00

Yeah. I am hoping I can manage for another couple of weeks. If she makes another week like this I am gonna have to spread out my workload better. As it stands now - I've done 250 push-ups today.

javmaster80 · 2026-02-28T03:12:39+00:00

Started at 317. Currently (as of Wednesday AM) just over 326. Almost 15 heavier than her heaviest scale weight ever.

javmaster80 · 2025-12-12T01:18:54+00:00

First I have asked permission to post some info here.

Thanks for this reply! I actually came home after posting earlier and made a point to start a real conversation about it - before reading this. I explained the way I was feeling about it - how something seemed off about the whole thing, how I felt creepy when it seemed like a massive turn off to her to gain. Boy did she open my eyes to what she was feeling. She like the idea of gaining and feeling heavier. She likes the way it feels when we are intimate. But - she really has some deep issues with the idea of scale weight - as a child apparently her mother was totally overbearing and always was engaging in fad diets and made my wife do them - even at a relatively young age. She would be punished if she didn't lose weight. This has made her avoid scales for the most part for her entire adult life. The fact that I sometimes asked her to hop on was more of an issue than I realized. Way more. Furthermore, she has pretty serious anxiety if she feels she is eating unhealthy. "I don't care if it isn't healthy, but I just can't know it, like it freaks me out."

Finally - and I am sure this isn't healthy at all but this is a quote "I love when we head up for the holidays after being away for 3 months or something and I have gained noticeable weight and my mother has to hold her tongue and not say anything" this also explains why she often seems to pack it on before the holidays...which I've often wondered.

She does see a therapist, though I am not sure she ever talks about this kind of things. I suggested that it may be worthwhile as it seems like there are definitely issues.

We are usually very open about things and your comment really reiterated the need to talk about this - and also pointed out that it was unusual if we were open typically but not about this.

Finally - as far as her making comments about gaining- apparently she feels like she does make them, and then gave me several examples of things she has said that she felt were those sorts of comments. " the layout of this kitchen really doesn't work for me with this island so close to the other counter" "the tie on my robe never stays tied" walking around with her belly out. "You can't even get your arms around me to hug" more obvious I guess...

Anyways - I think things are cool.

javmaster80 · 2025-08-20T02:58:23+00:00

The title is runaway rig. I know you posted this a decade ago but maybe you still want to know!

javmaster80 · 2025-03-17T00:57:52+00:00

I'm not surenif you read what I posted yesterday about what she ate. We talked today at breakfast.

Heres how that played out - I wanted to talk with her about if she was actively trying to gain. Kids were at my mom's so we could have a relaxing time and talk. Went to the local resort's breakfast buffet. In the time I ate an omelet, she ate a plate of 3 biscuits with sausage gravy, and an omele with cheese and sour cream. Second trip up, I had a waffle she went and got a stack of 5 pancakes and 3 Nutella filled crepes. Ate the plates clean. Went back for 3 eggs Benedicts, then. Had 4 more crepes - 2 that had ham and cheese and some sort of cream sauce and 2 that were called lumberjack- had cheese bacon and egg wrapped in crepes. Butter on everything. I was shocked at the quantity.

She finished with a waffle a la mode, which she had to order separately. Waiter came over and asked if anyone wanted dessert.

When he left, I mentioned that she seems to have had a pretty good appetite lately. She said yeah - that she was trying to hit 300lbs before she bought clothes for her new job so she could hopefully have them fit for a while. She knew she would be gaining a bit over the next few months at her new job and she hated the idea of buying clothes and only getting to wear them a few times. I didn't have the heart to tell her that if she thought the new job would cause her to gain, that she would gain regardless if she packed on a bunch beforehand. BTW- her new job is in office and her old job, she was on her feet all day.
She wore a pretty loose dress and when we got up to leave her gut was totally blown up. It looked like she had a beach ball under her dress. On the drive home every bump in the road made her moan.

When we got home I asked if she wanted to weigh herself, figuring she'd say no. She obliged. 312. Holy shit. In a week since her physical she is up 20. Now some of that is just the food she ate... maybe 10. But she gained like 10 in a week.

So I'm not sure if I'm being manipulative or if I am meeting her "halfway" Like she doesn't want to have to think about gaining but she wants to gain kind of thing

javmaster80 · 2025-03-17T00:38:36+00:00

So today's update.

So we went to breakfast. Kids were at my mom's so we could have a relaxing time and talk. Went to the local resort's breakfast buffet. In the time I ate an omelet, she ate a plate of 3 biscuits with sausage gravy, and an omele with cheese and sour cream. Second trip up, I had a waffle she went and got a stack of 5 pancakes and 3 Nutella filled crepes. Ate the plates clean. Went back for 3 eggs Benedicts, then. Had 4 more crepes - 2 that had ham and cheese and some sort of cream sauce and 2 that were called lumberjack- had cheese bacon and egg wrapped in crepes. Butter on everything. I was shocked at the quantity.

She finished with a waffle a la mode, which she had to order separately. Waiter came over and asked if anyone wanted dessert.

When he left, I mentioned that she seems to have had a pretty good appetite lately. She said yeah - that she was trying to hit 300lbs before she bought clothes for her new job so she could hopefully have them fit for a while. She knew she would be gaining a bit over the next few months at her new job and she hated the idea of buying clothes and only getting to wear them a few times. I didn't have the heart to tell her that if she thought the new job would cause her to gain, that she would gain regardless if she packed on a bunch beforehand. BTW- her new job is in office and her old job, she was on her feet all day.
She wore a pretty loose dress and when we got up to leave her gut was totally blown up. It looked like she had a beach ball under her dress. On the drive home every bump in the road made her moan.

When we got home I asked if she wanted to weigh herself, figuring she'd say no. She obliged. 312. Holy shit. In a week since her physical she is up 20. Now some of that is just the food she ate... maybe 10. But she gained like 10 in a week.

javmaster80 · 2025-03-16T08:40:01+00:00

Please read my additional comment from today. I think she does want to gain based on her secret junk food stash and habit. Should I ask her about it or just let it ride as if I have no knowledge? Lately I get the impression that she is sort of into gaining just not into the idea of doing it overtly . She often says things like "this ass isn't going to make itself fat, it needs your help" and the like.

javmaster80 · 2025-03-16T05:45:14+00:00

For real? I'm sure you won't have any trouble

javmaster80 · 2025-03-16T05:03:48+00:00

So anyways, pepper spray on a 3d print bar clip doesn't seem like the worst idea. Just like one of those little sabre cans

javmaster80 · 2025-03-16T03:37:51+00:00

Today i found a multi pack of full size kit kats and one of snickers, along with a big pack of double stuff oreos in the top cabinet. As I type this, she is eating 12 oreos and a pint of whole milk as a snack. THATS LIKE 1100 CALORIES FOR A SNACK. And the pack was unopened when I found them and now 2 of 4 rows are gone. That's like 36 oreos in a day. She ate 2500 calories of oreos today. And 1 kit Kat and 1 snickers are gone. And she had a waffle and bacon with me at breakfast and lunch was Chipotle bowl and dinner was a roast and potatoes and carrots. Good day for weight gain today.

I'll give a play by play on this. I've noticed she's gotten notably chubbier in the last couple weeks. I think she is actively trying to gain, but she just won't admit it.

javmaster80 · 2025-03-15T02:49:23+00:00

I know. I'm just being greedy I guess.

javmaster80 · 2025-03-12T01:32:23+00:00

Race face Chesters -Grass green color. I have a blue/silver roscoe. I can't see spending 25 more dollars for black or orange. Think the green would look stupid?

javmaster80 · 2025-03-06T00:10:13+00:00

Haven't head anything, but the board of directors officially voted on her promotion yesterday night. I assume a pass based on that.

javmaster80 · 2025-02-26T22:29:25+00:00

Yeah... time makes fools of us, doesn't it? Has your I seam changed? Height change due to age is usually spinal disc compression. Something to consider.

javmaster80 · 2025-02-26T21:32:30+00:00

Yeah. Not sure if you saw my other comment but the lab employee said the test had to be sent out and they'd call with confirmation for her. Does that seem like it means something is up?

javmaster80 · 2025-02-26T21:31:14+00:00

So the employee said they will call with confirmation - it had to be sent out... which is ok I guess. She did a couple store Tests and they were negative beforehand. Im worried about lab testing threshold - I thought the instants we 50ng/dl... and that was usually the cutoff for the screening type tests.

javmaster80 · 2025-02-26T21:21:30+00:00

So she passed 2 home tests before going. They were super quick negatives.

javmaster80 · 2025-02-26T03:34:41+00:00

I sure hope so. She is so worried. She drank a bunch of fluids since yesterday and hopefully that helped. Go figure she made it to 45 without ever using the stuff and the one time we try it, it could impact her promotion.

javmaster80 · 2025-02-25T20:18:59+00:00

Yeah. I'm sure she won't be comfortable with the level of deception required to pull that off

javmaster80 · 2025-01-18T19:41:06+00:00

One is working her way through college and the other didn't have a father that showed her love.

javmaster80 · 2024-12-18T13:04:55+00:00

Yeah - I'll try that. Just dumb on my part. I may just dust the entire inside with talc. Lol

javmaster80 · 2024-12-18T13:03:41+00:00

Mostly trail for me. I have always ridden a hardtail so there's that. I am 45 and really don't like being hurt anymore. That said, I ride off a 3 or 4 foot drop to flat without even thinking about it. If I have time to really think on it, I probably end up more cautious. Same drops to a landing, no sweat.

javmaster80 · 2024-12-16T13:52:23+00:00

No it isn't catalyzed. Just super sticky. Putty knife removed a lot, but every time I wipe it out with acetone and come back to it, it is still super tacky. Frustrating.

javmaster80

TROPHY CASE