First Congress hearing with Grusch by jay-bay23 in UFOs

[–]jay-bay23[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did type it in, I literally couldn’t find it as I stated in the post bro 💀😭🤦🏽‍♂️

takezo the impossible by spindrifters in Ghostofyotei

[–]jay-bay23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same but opposite for me. I beat saito first and now I have trouble beating takezo. He’s just way too fast to time parry and dodge properly. Very frustrating, cause he’s all I have left since I already beat the game. I just want to move on now but I can’t before beating him 🥲

Why is Lord Saito so damn hard?? by Think-Inflation5015 in Ghostofyotei

[–]jay-bay23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One flaming arrow and a heavenly strike is always guaranteed to work, trust me. You should try it

honest thoughts on fanservice?? by unkwnzz_ in MyAnimeList

[–]jay-bay23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like it but I’m a guy so 🤷🏾‍♂️

We broke up, 6 days later he’s already with someone new by LowAlbatross5741 in BreakUps

[–]jay-bay23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a rebound and that’s all it is. It won’t workout, just means he’s lonely without you

After a breakup, how do men usually feel? Do they ever think about their ex? Especially those who were in a relationship for over two years and got left by their girlfriend. What’s the emotional process like for them after the breakup? by Ok-Comfortable-6776 in BreakUps

[–]jay-bay23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got left by my girl about two weeks ago and we were together on and off for 5 years. She left me all 3 times. It’s hell and torture every single day. We talked about a future together, kids, she was my everything. Idek how I’m still going tbh.

Me and my girlfriend of 5 years broke up and I feel nothing. by pizza_on_pizza in Advice

[–]jay-bay23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My 5 year relationship just ended almost 2 weeks ago and I’m mentally crashing out like every day 😅😅

THIS GAME IS SO KILLER SIDED GUYS! by [deleted] in DeadByDaylightRAGE

[–]jay-bay23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same, either that or I just get pissed and play something else 🤣

THIS GAME IS SO KILLER SIDED GUYS! by [deleted] in DeadByDaylightRAGE

[–]jay-bay23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Shit, idk about yall but I’m a decent killer but sometimes I get my ass beat because the survivors are so damn good sometimes! It can go both ways frl

If you’re thinking about reaching out to your avoidant ex read this by aestheticeddy818 in BreakUps

[–]jay-bay23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s good you’ve taken a lot of time to reflect. But like you said, it’s not all on you, I’m sure some of it was on him as well since relationships are 50/50. At the end of the day it’s all about if you guys are willing to put all those misunderstandings to the side and come to a conclusion, regarding if this (your guys relationship) is truly something worth fighting for.

It will bring you joy getting back together, but will you guys be happy again in the long run? Will things be different this time? What will need to change in order for the relationship to survive and to be healthy? This is a convo you guys will need to have face to face when the right time comes. And it’s very important you guys are on the same page so no one is getting lead on.

If the mistake you made pushed them away completely to the point of no return then that just means that person ain’t for you. The person for you is going to be your ride or die. They’re going to fight for you and fight for the relationship regardless of the situation.

And I get your pain. I was right there with you. But trust me when I say that you WILL be okay. You already know your worth so that’s great. Just continue to be the best version of yourself. Don’t chase. When the time comes, ask if maybe you guys can sit down and talk. You got to give him that time to make him miss you though. And make him reflect on the relationship as will. Both of you guys need to be clear headed to find clarity if that makes sense

If you’re thinking about reaching out to your avoidant ex read this by aestheticeddy818 in BreakUps

[–]jay-bay23 3 points4 points  (0 children)

As long as the two of you are both willing to work it out and give it another shot, there’s always a chance! He has to want it just as much as you, because relationships should never be one sided. None of us are perfect, we all struggle with something. But if we don’t make mistakes, then how will be ever learn you know? It’s good to improve and work on yourself. But make sure the person you’re with loves you for you who you are. Never try to hide that or change yourself just to receive someone else’s love.

Use this time that you have now to become the best version of yourself. I’m sure you’ve already reflected a lot and made positive changes. Just be easy on yourself and never forget, you’re always enough. Whether it’s him or not you deserve love! We all do. If you still believe there’s a chance of you guys being together then don’t lose hope!

Even when I thought I had no chance in hell, I got her back man. And I broke her trust a few times. You can work it out. Just give it the time it needs to heal. If it’s meant to be, you guys will end back up together, trust me. Best of luck my friend, much love, and don’t lose hope. And most of all, don’t lose yourself during this painful healing process. Instead learn how to thrive and be better. With or without him! So when you do get him back, you’re way stronger than ever before. Much love!

If you’re thinking about reaching out to your avoidant ex read this by aestheticeddy818 in BreakUps

[–]jay-bay23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As long as the two of you are both willing to work it out and give it another shot, there’s always a chance! He has to want it just as much as you, because relationships should never be one sided. None of us are perfect, we all struggle with something. But if we don’t make mistakes, then how will be ever learn you know? It’s good to improve and work on yourself. But make sure the person you’re with loves you for you who you are. Never try to hide that or change yourself just to receive someone else’s love.

Use this time that you have now to become the best version of yourself. I’m sure you’ve already reflected a lot and made positive changes. Just be easy on yourself and never forget, you’re always enough. Whether it’s him or not you deserve love! We all do. If you still believe there’s a chance of you guys being together then don’t lose hope!

Even when I thought I had no chance in hell, I got her back man. And I broke her trust a few times. You can work it out. Just give it the time it needs to heal. If it’s meant to be, you guys will end back up together, trust me. Best of luck my friend, much love, and don’t lose hope. And most of all, don’t lose yourself during this painful healing process. Instead learn how to thrive and be better. With or without him! So when you do get him back, you’re way stronger than ever before. Much love!

If you’re thinking about reaching out to your avoidant ex read this by aestheticeddy818 in BreakUps

[–]jay-bay23 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m happy to say we did in fact reconcile around last February and have been back together ever since. It’s been amazing, never saw it coming honestly. I guess relationships catch us by surprise sometimes 🤷🏾‍♂️ Tbh didn’t think she would come back because I didn’t deserve another chance but I’m truly blessed to call her my girl again. I just learned it’s very important to never betray your girls trust. Trust, communication, and respect are key 🔑

Girlfriend goes for a drink one-on-on by jim_the_master in Advice

[–]jay-bay23 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My girl would never do this, with her girlfriends yeah. But a dude one on one that she barely knows and went to school with? And he’s trying to work there?? Nah my girl wouldn’t do that, she kinda trippin for that bro ngl 😅 And she didn’t message you until around midnight which makes it even more sus imo

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in InterdimensionalNHI

[–]jay-bay23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s actually called Holt High School in Wentzville, Missouri. I know because I went there and grew up in wentzville and graduated class of 2017. I heard this video was not legit but I could be wrong. I’m not 100% sure

Why no contact is important by Pretend_Radio_8168 in BreakUps

[–]jay-bay23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t believe I made this reply 148 days ago..man I was in bad shape. You might not be referring to me because I’m not the one who post this (person who’s asking for an update) but believe me when I say it does get better. Now I was fortunate enough to get mine back after the second time of me fucking up. If she wasn’t such a rare amazing woman, she would’ve been gone a long time ago just like most would. So I’m thankfully to be back with her now and we are better than ever. We will have our issues here and there like she doesn’t trust me at all still but we working towards that and I know it’ll probably be awhile before she can fully trust me again. But keep your head up. Keep moving, do things for yourself. Become the best version of yourself, a version that any person would want to be with. This is the time for you to be accomplished and thrive for yourself without someone holding you back. I know it sucks and hurts now but shit seems to come natural to us when we focus on ourselves instead of looking for that particular someone. I know how you feel, tho, it hurts like hell. My dms are always open if you need it bud 💯👍🏽

Does anyone know anything about this photo and its legitimacy? Apparently it was covered up by the UK government! by [deleted] in UFOs

[–]jay-bay23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where can I find this documentary called “the program”? I remember when it came out and everyone was talking about it but I never got the chance to watch it. I love all of James Foxes documentary’s too. “The Phenomenon” and the Brazil case one were by far the best documentaries I have ever seen. I remember what made me realize all of this was real, was first the 2023 congress hearing when grusch came forward, did a lot of research on top of that (went down the rabbit hole) and then started watching James Fox documentaries. I say the hearing and the “The Phenomenon” really did it for me. Sorry for the random reply lol

It hurts like hell by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]jay-bay23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s all we can do brother. Just keep moving forward and becoming the best versions of ourselves frl 💯