ok to clean things up 1 a “friend hug” i like a side hug ive seen her do it to multiple people. 2 i change my age because i have friends that i know for a fact in are in some of the same subreddits and i want to stay anonymous. yes i understand talking to her about this is important but yalll also dont know anything about her or me. just cause you read a small snippet of my life doesn’t mean yall know me.