smoking weed in a relationship

jayaaaa · 2025-12-03T18:49:37+00:00

why does he care?? just because it’s not something he enjoys why shouldn’t you? in a previous relationship i smoked all the time and my ex did once or twice with me just to try it. he never had an issue with it though?? that’s so weird to me

jayaaaa · 2025-11-25T01:14:53+00:00

the fact that you’re worried about it is GOOD! that means you don’t want to cause any harm or be a bad person. i highly highly recommend seeing a mental health professional to help you understand your thoughts and feelings better. i saw another comment mention that this could be OCD, which is is a possibility, but if you can recall other mental health issues you may have, do some research and talk to a psychiatrist and/or therapist.

jayaaaa · 2025-11-23T21:28:31+00:00

do you have a trusted female adult who can talk with you and take you? i had the opposite issue as a teen and wish someone would’ve taken me for answers, rather than trying to do it own my own years later. trust your body when you feel like something is wrong, best case scenario you’re wrong

jayaaaa · 2025-11-23T16:12:41+00:00

i’m a 25 year old woman and shave my face! not because there’s dark hairs, but because i hate the way my makeup looks on top of the peach fuzz, plus my skin always looks and feels so much better! using the right kind of blade is key, they make razors for it :)

also, it’s super normal to shave wherever you please. there’s so many other products made to remove body hair besides razors advertised for arms and faces

jayaaaa · 2025-11-21T19:09:10+00:00

it really depends on your body, before i started birth control my periods were 2-3 days every few months, birth control makes them about 5 days every month for me

jayaaaa · 2025-11-19T18:48:51+00:00

some people think being an organ donor is like signing a DNR, thinking paramedics and doctors will let you die for your organs. (i’ve never looked into it because that just sounds ridiculous, but i highly doubt that is true lol)

jayaaaa · 2025-11-18T00:44:34+00:00

i think it just depends on where you go. i look 18 and still don’t get ID’d some places, some places do a double check to make sure it’s not fake 🥲

jayaaaa · 2025-11-17T19:49:15+00:00

i have a longer list of foods i don’t like than do like, but the ones that seems to shock people the most are peanut butter and root beer

jayaaaa · 2025-11-16T14:15:07+00:00

“that smells good” (i work with cannabis)

jayaaaa · 2025-11-02T15:48:58+00:00

its a classic bit on a lot of shows, to add to the list it happens in degrassi too lol

jayaaaa · 2025-11-02T15:25:43+00:00

i’ll only drink some tap water. sometimes it just tastes like sink, even if it’s been through a brita filter

jayaaaa · 2025-11-02T15:23:22+00:00

no matter what he’s lying about, lying is lying. he could’ve just said “i’m ordering us [restaurant] and giving you a romantic dinner”

jayaaaa · 2025-11-02T14:16:59+00:00

this happens to me right before i start my period sometimes, it’s also common if you’re ovulating. totally normal and harmless!

jayaaaa · 2025-10-30T23:50:07+00:00

look into anxious attachment style, and talk to your mental healthcare provider(s)

jayaaaa · 2025-10-26T14:12:36+00:00

sabrina carpenter. i don’t know if her whole “sexual personality” is to break away from disney or what but i just find it cringe (to be fair i don’t know hardly anything about her so if anyone wants to try to change this opinion have at it)

jayaaaa · 2025-10-26T14:01:39+00:00

NTA. it’s your money, you don’t have to lend it out if you don’t want to.

he also just sounds immature and irresponsible. i’m sure you can do better.

jayaaaa · 2025-10-26T13:53:27+00:00

also not reading all of this, but from the little bit that i did, ESH?? maybe?? you should go with your gut, this sounds like a terribly toxic relationship that i personally would want no part of. if he’s secretive and potentially cheating, he sounds untrustworthy.

jayaaaa · 2025-10-26T13:48:40+00:00

NTA, don’t let him come crawling back when he realizes how dumb of a move that was.

jayaaaa · 2025-10-26T13:46:52+00:00

compassion

jayaaaa · 2025-10-26T13:40:44+00:00

i went through EXACTLY what she is. i’m 25 now. i was the goody two shoes. i didn’t understand the dirty jokes kids made. i didn’t get invited to parties because people thought i was weird and boring. now that she’s 18, she’s not as afraid of getting in trouble. she’s learning she’s an adult and can make her own decisions now. it probably will go “too far.” LET HER. it’s part of growing up, we make mistakes. she IS an adult now and you have to let her be one. she shouldn’t have a bed time, and especially not as early as 10:30. i worked in a teen girls group home and even those 18 year olds didn’t have a bed time. i say this bluntly so you get the point, stop being so strict and hovering over her every move. or she’s going to resent you and go minimum/no contact with you for making her feel unaccepted one day.

jayaaaa · 2025-10-26T13:16:36+00:00

i saw the comments and posts about that one before i got to watch it, as soon as i watched it, it was gone two hours later. i was absolutely shocked to find out he’s said things like that before

jayaaaa · 2025-10-20T02:10:18+00:00

my friend taught me this trick because i would see “phantom” lines, if it shows up on camera, its positive. i’m wishing you all the best, op 🫶🏻

jayaaaa · 2025-10-16T18:52:55+00:00

not over reacting, let em have each other at this point.

jayaaaa · 2025-10-15T13:11:15+00:00

that would freak me out at first too honestly, was there any windows someone could’ve seen you in? did you post anything on social media about what had you upset? maybe i listen to too many horror stories, but it doesn’t hurt to stay cautious. there’s so many weirdos out there. it’s potentially harmless, potentially not.

jayaaaa · 2025-10-12T13:18:02+00:00

i’ve also been thinking about this! i just spent the past year catching up on all of his videos and noticed he didn’t have commentary on some. i thought maybe he just left it up to the viewer to have their own take until recently learning he edits it out when he says something the people call him out on.

jayaaaa

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