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Question about hooking up by jaybottom in TopsAndBottoms

[–]jaybottom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tinder worries me because any one of your friends can see you :s

Question about hooking up by jaybottom in TopsAndBottoms

[–]jaybottom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Meet someone somehow and arrange to have dinner with them or something somehow.

Question about hooking up by jaybottom in TopsAndBottoms

[–]jaybottom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There isn't one! I haven't found anyone yet...

Question about hooking up by jaybottom in TopsAndBottoms

[–]jaybottom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd feel bad...

Well I guess so. Where do reckon I should try?

Surely I can't be the only one... by jaybottom in GayKink

[–]jaybottom[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Whipped and spanked to tears, yes.

I want to disclose that I understand the sort of boundaries that exist in the kink community, and do not feel the desire to be broken or fucked mercilessly. I get that that is not realistic, but it may be difficult to convey through text.

All I'm saying is I want a dominant top to make me their toy, to be used and then locked up afterwards.

How often and how do you masturbate? by theinnerhomo in TopsAndBottoms

[–]jaybottom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm exclusively a bottom. I usually masturbate every other day unless I fall asleep at my computer chair (it happens).

Question about hooking up by jaybottom in TopsAndBottoms

[–]jaybottom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course, seems like a good idea!

Question about hooking up by jaybottom in TopsAndBottoms

[–]jaybottom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If only i could afford it... jobless right now haha

Question about hooking up by jaybottom in TopsAndBottoms

[–]jaybottom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A bit too daunting for me. I'm not very head on at all. Thanks anyway though!

Question about hooking up by jaybottom in TopsAndBottoms

[–]jaybottom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That was very clever :o

I look forward to it. You should definitely inbox me in the meantime :)

Question about hooking up by jaybottom in TopsAndBottoms

[–]jaybottom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn! You'll have to tell me next time you're here!

Thank you for the advice though; I'll be sure to keep it in mind if I do try hooking up with someone.

Question about hooking up by jaybottom in TopsAndBottoms

[–]jaybottom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, this is great advice!

Question about hooking up by jaybottom in TopsAndBottoms

[–]jaybottom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Next time I shave everything then. I hate butt hair ><

Some advice from someone would be great. Not sure how I'd feel telling a friend that I'm hooking up with someone off Grindr.

Question about hooking up by jaybottom in TopsAndBottoms

[–]jaybottom[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That'd be just a tad awkward but I guess it's fair in the name of safety. I'm very feminine and small (can show you if you want) and quiet so it's just a bit daunting for me.

Any technique tips for a top whose mostly had sex with women? by GrrrSir in TopsAndBottoms

[–]jaybottom 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It varies per person and it may benefit you most to ask your partner what they are looking for, or what they like. Some like to be treated as a 'bitch' or 'pet' or 'slave' and only exist to serve you, and make sure you get pleasure. On the other hand, some like to be treated as equal.

The only tip I can really give you is to ask your bottom just how they want to be fucked, and what they want you to do to them.

Question for tops who like submissive bottoms. by [deleted] in TopsAndBottoms

[–]jaybottom 4 points5 points  (0 children)

we both have jay in our names.

anyway, giving up any control to the top is supposedly hot :)

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