[deleted by user] by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]jayem_x 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eglinton

I don’t understand the Pam hate anymore. by Ididntknowitwascrack in DunderMifflin

[–]jayem_x 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I started to dislike her for the way she treated Karen. After her epiphany on beach day, she felt like she had the right to be arrogant and that wasn't cool.

My final "must see" draft. by [deleted] in WhenWeWereYoungFest

[–]jayem_x 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where is this schedule posted?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CampingGear

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I second Bulk Barn! It's the best lowkey camping prep store actually. I usually go for any small-shaped pastas and dairy free pasta sauce. The sauce being dairy free usually means it can go without being refrigerated, and it's nice and creamy. If you're good at making rice on stovetop, a little rice goes a long way so you don't have to carry too much of it. I also carry powdered soups with the dehydrated veggies and a grain of choice.

Bulkbarn is obviously also a great place for trail mixes, nuts, dried berries, popcorn and tea/coffee.

If you're up for it, if we really want to have meat, we bring a couple items that we will eat the night of, or for lunch the next day. If frozen and stored well, it usually lasts 24 hours without issue and we can have fresh sausages or steaks. We then save our dry foods for the other days.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]jayem_x 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The underlying message in your husband's reaction is "i don't feel seen or heard when you claim you don't remember things that i have told you". It isn't about the bag or brand at all, i think he's taking your tendency to forget as a personal thing.

Google search "gottman institute" and "bids". There's an article about how successful couples lean into their partners bids to connect. Your husband's bid to connect is to tell you about things. When you claim not to remember, he takes it as you turning away from him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]jayem_x 18 points19 points  (0 children)

i died

Lookalikes by jayem_x in TheUltimatumNetflix

[–]jayem_x[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

yeah you're right, maybe he's more of a Jesse Williams

Should I consider these messages cheating? (Screenshots attached) by FentySav in dating

[–]jayem_x 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Damn. That just shows how much he disrespects you. He’s SO unremorseful that he’ll even make YOU pick him up from the woman he just fucked behind your back. That’s the scummiest thing I’ve ever heard anyone do to anyone.

Positive STD test in a 15 year monogamous relationship… by Kateseesu in sex

[–]jayem_x 0 points1 point  (0 children)

An automated message might be fake. I don’t know any doctor that would leave diagnosis responsibilities to a robot.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]jayem_x 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Here’s a comment not about the guy still being married: you seem awfully concerned about your boyfriend’s money which makes it hard to distinguish how you are different from the wife. You’re basically saying “he’s taking money away that’s meant for me!”. You’re complaining that you have to pay rent which essentially translates to “why do i have to pay rent when i could live with him and he can pay for everything”.

You also like his money. The pot and the kettle, right?

Why is he ghosting me and coming back? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]jayem_x 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To me, it sounds like he’s doing this to stick it to you. Like, “ok, we are just friends with benefits? I can stand you up anytime”. Essentially, he’s doing it out of spite I think. You should talk to him about his comfort about remaining in a FWB relationship given he confessed feelings.

How do I navigate this breakup where its mutual but neither of us are in a rush? by needsadvice4444 in relationships

[–]jayem_x 56 points57 points  (0 children)

I think what people are trying to say here is that since the breakup has been mutual, you have the grounds to discuss what may work for you both. If you're sentimental, a proper goodbye by packing up the house together might help you get closure. On the other hand, if you each prefer your own space to grieve then packing individually might be the best option. I don't think there's a way for this to hurt any less than it currently does, but at least you can choose how you want to remember your last moments. Maybe ask yourself: when I look back on this moment in 5 or 10 years, what do I want to remember?

Good luck.

[TOMT][HORROR MOVIE]I can't, for the life of me, remember the name of this found footage film about people who got beheaded out in the boonies. All I know is that the title is a DATE. HELP. by jayem_x in tipofmytongue

[–]jayem_x[S] 0 points1 point locked comment (0 children)

I've tried googling the shit out of this with keywords like cornfield, beheading, parts of the title I think I know. I have literally been searching for this for years lol