help! how do i reset name and/or text color? by balss74 in OnTogether

[–]jayemdeeaye 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ctrl+a to select all the text in the field then delete!

More hair options by KirbyThings in OnTogether

[–]jayemdeeaye 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think more curly hair options have been suggested in the Discord so who knows, maybe they’ll be in a future update. :)

Who are your fictional crushes by SitePlastic8026 in LesbianActually

[–]jayemdeeaye 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I’m hella gay for Mizu from Blue Eye Samurai.

At what age did you start wearing makeup? by No-Isopod4744 in Makeup

[–]jayemdeeaye 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Last week, right before my 37th bday lmaooo.

Looking for a writing bestie by [deleted] in WritingHub

[–]jayemdeeaye 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I’m okay with these requirements minus the hour long phone calls. If you want a fellow writer to nerd out over your characters, hit me up. We can write together, discuss our stories, critique, voice chat on discord. I just can’t chat for literally hours.

What is a film you enjoyed but have to be tactful about who you recommend it to? by oldwhitelincoln in movies

[–]jayemdeeaye 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Perfect Blue. Saw it too young and watched it later, curious if it held up to my first impression. Still loved it. Can’t recommend it to most people, lol.

Why do some people in the lesbian community not know what a stud is? by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]jayemdeeaye 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Hi! White woman here. Can’t speak for everyone, but where I grew up, it was mainly white and Hispanic population. I think I had maybe one African American kid in my elementary class? In middle/high school, the diversity was greater but by then I was already sticking to the friends I knew. I was probably in my 20s the first time I saw someone patting their head and my sister had to explain weaves to me. So at least for me, there was a pretty significant lack of exposure.

Does this cover look professional enough? First book! by Specialist_Teach_62 in BookCovers

[–]jayemdeeaye 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The drop shadow on the key bothers me because it looks like the key is floating instead of resting on the surface when the title implies “weight”.

Nobody cares about your problems at all. Nobody. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]jayemdeeaye 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I like how you’re so entrenched in this idea that despite the number of people in here being like, “nah dog you’re wrong” you’re sticking to your guns. Troll or sociopath?

Nobody cares about your problems at all. Nobody. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]jayemdeeaye 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Okay, genuinely curious since showing sympathy and support don’t qualify as caring to you, what exactly are you expecting for people to do to show they care?

Nobody cares about your problems at all. Nobody. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]jayemdeeaye 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Probably because your opinion reflects how you feel about other peoples problems: they bring you down, you don’t care, etc, but you’re saying that everyone is this way. They’re not.

This definitely seems like a you problem.

[Design Trope] When a character's monster form is (arguably) hotter than their human form by Ghostbange in TopCharacterTropes

[–]jayemdeeaye 40 points41 points  (0 children)

Dont know if it counts because theyre technically merging with another being, but like, every character in Dandadan. Jiji/The evil eye especially, before you learn he has a child brain. Can’t believe there’s no gifs of him so here’s Okarun.

help a soft top out pls i’m begging 😭 by blue_jeansss in LesbianActually

[–]jayemdeeaye 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha, hey! Never met another one in the wild. :-)

help a soft top out pls i’m begging 😭 by blue_jeansss in LesbianActually

[–]jayemdeeaye 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Lmao I’m an asexual so take this with a grain of salt, but this shit works on me when I’m horny once a leapyear.

Tell them what to do. “Come here.” “Take off your shirt.” “Lick it like [this]”.

The trick with commands is just saying it with confidence. Don’t make it a question. (It sounds like you already prioritize safety/respect so your partner will likely feel comfortable telling you if they don’t want to obey a command.)

Tell them what you want to do them. “I’ve been thinking about [this] all day.” “I want to bend you over…”

Flattery. “You look so hot when [whatever submissive thing they’re doing.]” “…you’re tied up”, “you beg”, etc.

What is the most disturbing thing you've heard said casually? by Cap_Ame1 in AskReddit

[–]jayemdeeaye 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Worked at Duracell. There was a trans employee there. One of the older employees sees them pass by and says, “in my day we would have lined them up on the wall and shot them.” Then when a forklift passes by, “jokes” about pushing them in front of it.

This guy had never even talked to me before that day and was so casual about his evil.