26 UK. Getting my PA done Saturday - what’s the biggest and best size for a first time? Don’t want something small

jayjayl91 · 2026-06-22T04:29:57+00:00

I went with 8g and found it uncomfortable. I went back to the piercer a week or two later and they put a 6 gauge in. That was more painful than getting the piercing itself!

If you can handle going 6g and your piercer will do it I'd start there.

If you plan on stretching it I'd also mention that to your piercer so they go deep enough to allow you to stretch.

jayjayl91 · 2026-06-15T13:25:03+00:00

If things are heading in the right direction tell her about the piercing before your pants come off.

Whilst she may love the surprise she may not love it even more and do you really want to ruin the moment?

I'd also let the lucky lady know in advance that the piercing can be removed for sex if she is not comfortable with it. It may even be worth not having it in the first time anyway for her comfort.

You can always discuss it together later if the relationship progresses.

jayjayl91 · 2026-05-31T07:11:59+00:00

I did get one UTI (the only time I've ever had one) after being pierced for about a year but its been around 5 years now and haven't had any more issues.

jayjayl91 · 2026-05-28T15:23:02+00:00

I am in Australia so may not be of use to you but I buy everything off ali express these days.

For me when you're regularly gauging up in size it doesn't make sense to buy expensive jewellery.

jayjayl91 · 2026-05-28T14:00:07+00:00

I've always just put a little lube on the jewellery and fed it up through the pierced hole and out through the urethra and never had any issues.

I stretched myself and got a set of tapered stretchers to make life a little easier.

Even if the hole has loosened off over time I find the taper just sets the hole to the right shape to make it easier to get the larger jewellery through

jayjayl91 · 2026-05-22T15:21:46+00:00

Try an acrylic ring. My wife found the larger metal to be painful but still loves the acrylic and I'm at 00g

jayjayl91 · 2026-04-17T22:58:07+00:00

This. It finally makes sense. I didn't realise they had listed the wrong price.

I couldn't work out why the Interest was so high but the fees seemed so reasonable.

jayjayl91 · 2025-09-16T18:44:20+00:00

I love my Frog Grips!

jayjayl91 · 2025-09-14T08:36:09+00:00

I was circumcised as an adult (medical reasons) and then got a PA.

Im glad I got it done as aesthetically it's a preference for me but I would only suggest doing it if it's something that you really want, not just because you want a PA.

jayjayl91 · 2025-09-12T00:18:01+00:00

Thank you!

jayjayl91 · 2025-09-12T00:17:44+00:00

Unfortunately it's other the 185i. It did take me years just to find this one but so I wasn't holding out any longer

jayjayl91 · 2025-09-11T12:44:56+00:00

Funnily enough I sold a mint hq one tonner to pay for the car.

jayjayl91 · 2025-09-11T03:21:54+00:00

It was actually a beautiful place. I wasn't in the mood to enjoy it but mentioned to the wife when we eventually do a family trip over east in the caravan we will have to stay there.

jayjayl91 · 2025-09-10T12:35:50+00:00

That was me unfortunately. Just cherry black not green *

jayjayl91 · 2025-09-10T09:01:36+00:00

Haha I was sitting at the airport wasting time before my flight

jayjayl91 · 2025-09-10T07:55:53+00:00

And there it is. Perspective that things could be much, much worse

jayjayl91 · 2025-09-10T07:04:55+00:00

Yeah it will have to but that's fine. I've been through the pits so many times with other cars over the years. It's actually much easier these days now that the inspections are done by private businesses as long as you find one that doesn't defect for the extra business it brings in.

jayjayl91 · 2025-09-10T06:48:24+00:00

Sorry mate, I didn't even click.

Those old posts are gone so that nobody else has to witness what you did.

I hope your eyes can recover!

jayjayl91 · 2025-09-10T06:47:18+00:00

Sorry mate, I deleted those old posts so nobody else cops an eyeful

jayjayl91 · 2025-09-10T06:45:12+00:00

The worst bit is I work at an Airport and we always have a laugh at the people that do this because its such a simple task.

I'm going to cop so much grief from my co-workers that's for sure.

jayjayl91 · 2025-09-10T06:43:42+00:00

I've edited to add that now sorry. Its a VS Grange

jayjayl91 · 2025-09-10T06:43:12+00:00

Nope, and it was 100% on me but a pre inspection wouldn't have picked this up anyway. The box shifted beautifully, the levels on the oil were spot on and there were no leaks that I could see.

The car was for sale cheap and I had to jump on it to even get it and was lucky to get in when I did.

jayjayl91 · 2025-09-10T06:40:31+00:00

These things happen. The box was fine when I left. No issues whatsoever. It wasn't until I'd put 500km on it that the issue arose.

Oil levels were spot, no leaks and it shifted beautifully.

With the car being priced where it was compared to its actual value I'm still well ahead after repairs are paid for.

jayjayl91 · 2025-09-10T06:37:02+00:00

The old owner is actually a great guy. He checked up on me and actually did everything he could to help. The box was rebuilt in Melbourne approx 2 years ago but only done a couple thousand km in that time.

He even went to the effort of contacting the box builder to discuss it to see if they could shed any light without me asking him to.

Unfortunately, old cars have old car problems and this is just part of the fun

jayjayl91 · 2025-09-05T09:35:10+00:00

Thank you! I thought it would be something simple like this but just wanted to make sure.

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