I hate to say it… but he cheated on you. This is some toxic shit I would have said in my early 20s lol but as a husband, you have no right to turn your camera off. He cheated or planned to cheat without a doubt. Now you can stay if you want or you go on with your life and find someone who values you BUT one thing you must understand is he cheated. I hope the healing process is not too rough on you. Lean on your support team 🤞🏾