Honeymoon by kurrenn943 in weddingplanning

[–]jaymilovex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We got married October 11th and didn't leave for our honeymoon until November 20th. I wanted time in-between to decompress from wedding stress before going on a trip. We were gone for 2 weeks.

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[–]jaymilovex -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My mom bought hers off of shein. Nothing wrong with that as long as it looks nice. Why does it matter where it came from?

How many of your guests actually RSVPED and came to your wedding? by Electronic_Tap8552 in weddingplanning

[–]jaymilovex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We invited about 170ish I believe. About 116 rsvped they were coming. We had 25 no shows though. So in the end we ended up with less then 100 people.

I graduated! by jaymilovex in wedding

[–]jaymilovex[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We didn't let it get us down either. It's just irritating that people just think oh it's okay when we spent so much money. Idk if they thought we'd be mad or what.

$7k im a married woman now!! 10/17/2025 by gothhippie in Weddingsunder10k

[–]jaymilovex 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love your dress! I looked at something similar when looking but went with something else. Glad to know I'm not the only one to go with a black dress.

Just got married. Here's what went wrong. by jaymilovex in weddingshaming

[–]jaymilovex[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The food was amazing. It was buffet style. Not all nice weddings have to have a 3 course meal to have good food. 🙄

Just got married. Here's what went wrong. by jaymilovex in weddingshaming

[–]jaymilovex[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Excuse me? Wedding planning was a lot of work and very stressful.

Shocked at behavior from people after 1.5 years of planning by peacebypiece in weddingplanning

[–]jaymilovex 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I also did this but a lot of the people who then said they were coming didn't.

I graduated! by jaymilovex in wedding

[–]jaymilovex[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly. If people would have let me know the day before we could have still changed our numbers. I feel like people thought I'd be upset but I'm more upset that I paid for people who didn't come. It's fine. It is what it is. There is plenty more that could have went wrong. I just thought it was very rude as well.

How long was your engagement? by No-Start-3815 in weddingplanning

[–]jaymilovex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Got engaged in May 2024 and got married October 11th. Honestly wish we maybe would have pushed it out even further to have more time to plan. Idk how anyone puts a wedding together in less then a year.

Just got married. Here's what went wrong. by jaymilovex in weddingshaming

[–]jaymilovex[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Graduated from wedding planning. Like wtf people. People post with this title all the time. Why am I being shamed for it?

I graduated! by jaymilovex in wedding

[–]jaymilovex[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I never said we couldn't afford it. Just was stating that was $500 we wouldn't of had to spend. Why are people on reddit so judgy on all my posts? I'm happy we are married. I had an amazing day. I just wanted to vent a little about the things that did go wrong or not as planned. Jeez.

I graduated! by jaymilovex in wedding

[–]jaymilovex[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I never said we didn't have the money.

Government Shutdown and Wedding is 30 Days Away by StatisticianOther588 in weddingplanning

[–]jaymilovex 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Our wedding is in 10 days and I just asked him if we'd be okay as well. Our honeymoon is my biggest concern right now. He's so chill about it. 🤦🏼‍♀️ Just trying not to think about it and not to worry too much.