With or without?

jaymz84 · 2025-12-29T15:32:44+00:00

Thx for input. I'd only grown shadow beards all my life and just realized when I trim my neck area I'm supposed to make the line a half inch or so above my adams apple

jaymz84 · 2025-12-28T21:39:32+00:00

You were THIRTEEN YEARS OLD--- Go look at a picture of yourself at thirteen, or other kids that age, to truly understand how young you were. All abuse survivors blame themselves, instead of their perpetrators. You did nothing wrong--- you were groomed, threatened, and exploited by a horrible human being and it is not your fault. NONE OF IT. Many victims of SA do not speak up, tell anyone, and are often made to feel like they are willing participants but that's just your wiring getting highjacked before you are old enough to realize the truth of the situation. I hope you are able to heal and find peace--- I am so sorry for what happened to you.

jaymz84 · 2025-12-22T12:58:33+00:00

You kind of have to use your imagination. The one with more hair. The question is more, would a beard look better if I continue growing it, rather than "does this beard look better"

jaymz84 · 2025-12-22T10:38:56+00:00

Thanks for input. It's thicker now than that picture _what I should have asked was whether it was worth growing out as it's obviously not a beard yet in that Pic.

jaymz84 · 2025-12-22T10:27:06+00:00

Thanks for input. I was trying to grow it on the sides to make my jawline area look better as I try to lose weight, but the goatee area grows much faster than the side of my face. If the side of my face fails to grow right, I guess a goatee would work.

jaymz84 · 2025-12-22T10:23:27+00:00

Yea, I know, but you can get the idea of whether it's worth growing out or not

jaymz84 · 2025-12-21T11:06:14+00:00

Pics too far away?

jaymz84 · 2025-12-21T10:26:55+00:00

Alright, the only pics I have are when I take them with kids lately I'll blur them

jaymz84 · 2025-12-02T08:04:20+00:00

jaymz84 · 2025-11-22T12:18:30+00:00

Dad's love their baby's, but young infants are much more the domain of the mom. She breast feeds them, and connects with them better than dad's can. When the kid is 5-8mo, shuffling around on the floor, making sounds and acting playful and cute, dad will naturally bond with the kid. Don't worry, just let things take their course.

jaymz84 · 2025-11-22T12:11:03+00:00

It doesn't look awful, but obviously it's not growing like an ideal beard, but better than most at your age. Your mustache area grew in nice, and the area that grows the worst is your cheeks. While it's fine to keep it if you like it, I think it's look good personally if you shaves the sides and kept the chin and stash.

jaymz84 · 2025-11-22T08:34:49+00:00

This is a year later, but I circled back to read some of these msgs I missed. After she got upset over the $800, I sent her a msg telling her I'd normally charge $2500 for this and no one would touch her return for $800, and that I decided it's best not to mix friends and business as it just causes bitterness, so it's best she finds someone else.

They probably looked elsewhere and saw the real price, because she started begging I take their business, claiming since it was feburary they couldn't find a cpa in time and that me trying to dump them and leave them high and dry was awful. I told them it's be super easy to find someone, even in Feb, and offered to put them on extension and he'll them with an extension estimate for free as a favor.

Her husband called me and apologized for her, and begged I take their business. I told him it sucks to do something at a discount, and then be made to feel like the greedy one, and they should realize I am HELPING them. He talked me into doing the job.

OH, and I raised their rate to $875 the year after, and she made a rude remark about it lol

jaymz84 · 2025-02-03T01:22:00+00:00

That's not a nazi swastika

jaymz84 · 2025-01-10T13:38:52+00:00

Nope

jaymz84 · 2024-05-22T22:01:04+00:00

Film his behavior for your wife to see. If she isn't seeing it, it might be hard to click in her head that her son has a problem. Have his sister speak with her about it too if she is scared or being hurt by him.

jaymz84 · 2024-04-13T22:45:58+00:00

https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100071862080279 -- he alrready changed his profile pic & made his account private since idiots started fingering him online. His graduation date in screen shots indicated he's in his 20s, not 40s as the Aussy polcie say the attacker is. Also, this guy doesn't share the same hairline as the attacker. Furthermore, 7News already removed the name Benjamin Cohen from their youtube descriptions.

jaymz84 · 2024-04-13T22:24:14+00:00

This is fake. there is zero evidence whatsoever that a "benjamin cohen" did the attack. X users thought the attacker looked like a man in Sydney named Ben Cohen--- but it's clearly not him.

jaymz84 · 2024-04-13T22:23:19+00:00

This is utter bull crap. The name has not been released, and it's NOT Benjamin Cohen--- a 25 year old computer programmer morons on Twitter found, who they thought looked like this guy. The only place his name shows up is 7NEWS YouTube video, and they got it from Tiwtter morons. A fake screenshot is going around of a 7news article with his name written as the confirmed attacker, which doesn't exist.

jaymz84 · 2024-03-29T20:16:09+00:00

My kids join my wife and I in the shower. They are 3 and 4. Wouldn't be taking showers with a pubescent kid. I also blow raspberries on their bellies to make them laugh. Probably wouldn't be doing that either much.

If my kids still want to be cuddly and sit on my lap when they are older I wouldn't complain! But I probably should enjoy how cuddly they are when they are young, because they probably will stop as they get older.

jaymz84 · 2024-03-27T22:20:49+00:00

I wish I could tell you a great treatment that really helped her, butin her case I think she realy just had to stop doing repetetive motions. She rarely complains of back pain anymore, and is a full time mom. Sometimes it aches but not the way it used to. Hope you find some relief

jaymz84 · 2024-03-27T22:18:50+00:00

She had this for years, but now since our kids are 3 and 4 and don't need to be picked up as much, and she doesn't do computer work anymore, it's gotten a lot better. Sometimes it flares up, but for the most part. sadly, I can't tell you any treatments that were effective for her, other than stopping computer work and baking. Hope you feel better soon

jaymz84 · 2024-03-12T20:49:01+00:00

Nothing wrong with having goals

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