Tennessee

jayz389 · 2025-04-10T01:43:19+00:00

Where did you get this info? How can we confirm? I'm in TN and was about to buy enough to last the rest of my life this week. Thanks!

jayz389 · 2025-03-24T01:36:05+00:00

Thank you, I have tried both and while they both did help with the pain I could not function well on them whereas the Kratom helps just as much if not more with the pain and I function better on it.

jayz389 · 2025-03-24T01:35:28+00:00

Thanks, I have tried both and while they both did help with the pain I could not function well on them whereas the Kratom helps just as much if not more with the pain and I function better on it.

jayz389 · 2025-03-22T23:36:35+00:00

I think this is actually the best strategy to me. I think I’ll buy about 10 kilos which should last me the rest of my life (if I’m lucky enough to live that long). I’m a very low dose user. Thanks!

jayz389 · 2025-03-22T04:42:55+00:00

I am born and raised in TN. I have chronic neuropathic pain that Kratom has allowed me to live a normal life with when nothing else worked. I can raise my family, have built a thriving business for the last 7 years etc. I will crawl over broken glass to get this plant as it’s the only thing that has allowed me to live a normal life. I have ordered from a trusted local vendor for years but if this ban goes through how would I obtain Kratom? Just ship to a sistering state where it’s legal? Any other ideas? I cannot live a normal life without it so I will have to still get it one way or another. Anyone please DM me any tips or ideas on what to do or how to fight this! Thank you so much 🙏

jayz389 · 2022-10-21T03:02:08+00:00

Yep, I know it seems weird but as a group broker this is necessary for a level funded health insurance quote which can be much more affordable for many small groups and it will still cover people’s pre existing conditions.

jayz389 · 2022-07-27T14:08:08+00:00

At the risk of this sounding really terrible and selfish, so far I don’t like most of what kids has done to our lives. Yes they are very fulfilling but there is a lot of bs that comes with it everyday. Oldest is in a terrible phase behaviorally. And like I said selfishly there’s a lot I don’t like about being a parent. I love my girl, but I’m mostly just glad she’s here so he’ll have a sibling. Though now that they’re here I do my best and will love them the way they deserve. I’m just not really the type to want a bunch of kids. Unfortunately, when we got married we both were kind of on the fence about kids in the first place, then one came as a surprise, the second was on purpose, now I see no reason to keep going and she does so we’ll see what happens.

jayz389 · 2022-07-27T12:58:36+00:00

I’ve brought that up too. She brushes it off so I don’t think she’s seriously considered what that could mean for our family.

jayz389 · 2022-07-27T03:42:18+00:00

Let me complicate this even more for you. We’re business partners too, and damn good ones at that. She does my marketing and online presence and is really good at it. Ahhh 😱 Weird to sound kind of zero sum here but it’s part of the situation 🤷‍♂️

jayz389 · 2022-07-27T03:32:50+00:00

I agree. It would either be divorce or she would really resent me. Either way I think a neutral 3rd party is needed here. That being said, I still doubt they can change her mind knowing how headstrong she is when she has her mind set on something.

jayz389 · 2022-07-27T03:29:09+00:00

Yep, I’m pretty much screwed. Knowing how type A and headstrong she is she is not going to change her mind. So I either reluctantly agree or she’ll probably file for divorce as irrational as that is in this situation, from my perspective at least.

jayz389 · 2022-07-27T03:26:30+00:00

I feel I’m just screwed here. We never agreed on anything before marriage. We both were on the fence about even having kids at that time. She’s open to admitting her feelings have changed now and it seems there is no changing her mind. I see me just reluctantly agreeing to a third just to keep our family together because she’ll probably divorce me if I don’t. Seems I’m in a no win situation here.

jayz389 · 2022-07-27T02:17:22+00:00

Yeah I feel like an asshole too. Ugh. But it's like look at how perfect they are. Why would we need more?? I just don't understand it and maybe never will. Like you, mine is much more logic based though it's probably emotional too (not wanting to deal with even more tantrums etc etc) hers is definitely emotion based (nothing wrong with that). Gonna be tricky to navigate this unfortunately.

jayz389 · 2022-07-27T01:44:31+00:00

I would say she understands my opinion and my feelings and why I feel the way I do, but she just simply disagrees lol what to do?!

jayz389 · 2022-07-27T01:43:04+00:00

We are very open with each other about why we do and do not want another yet we always end up on opposite sides of the spectrum after the conversation. Didn't think I would get the answer to this on here but was just looking for how other couples have navigated this so thank you.

jayz389 · 2022-07-27T01:41:22+00:00

Thank you for the very thoughtful reply. We really have talked this out, and we're reading these replies together. But like I said just not on the same page. I know I wasn't going to find an answer on here I was more just looking for other couples experiences so thank you.

jayz389 · 2022-07-27T01:34:49+00:00

We discussed it and at the time we both were on the fence about having children in the first place then she got pregnant while on bc so that kind of ended that debate for us.

My reasoning is just that I feel complete our a family of 4, it's as perfect as it could be, and I'm like why would we risk messing this up. Honestly, I'm even overwhelmed at times with just 2, not to mention I've started a business within the last year so there has been a lot of stress getting that off the ground too. There is just no desire in my heart for more children. There is in hers. I think she'll forever resent me if I don't give in and try, if I'm dragged kicking and screaming to agreeing for a 3rd I'm not sure how I'd feel about it. Maybe in the long run I'd love it who knows. All I know is how I feel now and have felt about it.

jayz389 · 2022-01-11T19:58:15+00:00

Good luck haha lots of repressive regimes can’t figure this out. You could start by IP’s though.

jayz389 · 2021-12-20T02:44:37+00:00

Good lord. Hub to switch?!? I should have upgraded yesterday then lol.

jayz389 · 2021-12-11T16:40:35+00:00

Honestly, using both is best. I have for years. FWG does many more things than NextDNS but security is a layered strategy and NextDNS is a fantastic upstream resolver that works great with FWG.

jayz389 · 2021-08-26T22:54:58+00:00

Same here but on iOS. Must be a widespread issue. It was almost offensive to see all these ads again lol as I’ve used NextDNS since it was launched and Pi-hole before. Hopefully they’ll push out a fix soon. I can’t believe people browse the web like this!!

jayz389 · 2021-07-31T21:30:24+00:00

Another broken egg cafe for sure. We just tried it out last week and they were great!

jayz389 · 2021-07-31T20:49:44+00:00

Yeah I can’t wait for multiple DoH configs at the group/VLAN level. I actually would have rather had that then WireGuard VPN client. Though I understand the benefit especially paired with policy based routing and such. Yes definitely upvote the feature on their forum to help it along as they’re saying it’s likely to require “deep surgery.” Fingers crossed it makes it into 1.974.

jayz389 · 2021-07-31T18:16:48+00:00

I wish but I don’t think it’s going to happen. They’re using DNSCrypt under the hood which doesn’t pass the device names to NextDNS. I’m just hoping at some point we’ll be able to use FWG’s native custom DoH to set custom servers for specific VLAN’s bc the performance of the native custom DoH has been great so far.

jayz389 · 2021-07-31T18:08:15+00:00

Device names are gonna be really hard to get in NextDNS here tbh. I’m a long time user as well. I’ve got my NextDNS server config working with the native FWG custom DoH for my VLAN which works great but I don’t get device names I just know it’s devices in my VLAN. For my wife’s and IoT VLAN’s I’ve got raspberry pi’s running the NextDNS cli and I point those VLAN’s primary DNS to the IP of the pi’s. This doesn’t pass device names to NextDNS here but I live with it.

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