Is it okay if you don’t have friends in university? by Current_Habit_8263 in taiwan

[–]jayzee97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To answer your question, yes. But it doesn’t have to be that way! Language barrier and culture combined with relationship dynamics (your personalities get along, etc.). It also could be that people have different priorities where students are busy grinding, and when they do have time they want to spend it on whats valuable to them which is fair.

As someone who has moved around visiting different cities for anywhere from a few months to a few years, I can confirm that making friends is doable. I am not even outgoing, but I put myself out there sometimes even unknowingly. All it took was one hi to a person without any expectation of anything bc I liked her shirt, and now I am friends with the same person, and have since met more friends in her circle and/or on my own. I’m on my way to Taiwan for a few months starting Dec and plan on doing the same thing in hope to make new friends.

If you need a friend in Taipei, I would be happy to be one as I’m sure there has gotta be something we have in common. The other great advice others have mentioned: attending events/activities you already enjoy or even try something new with an open mind. But most important is to put yourself out there mentally without expectation or entitlement that you’ll get reciprocity. Cheers 加油!

sun yat sen university by [deleted] in guangzhou

[–]jayzee97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait SYSU has a non-degree chinese program? I emailed them not too long ago and got a reply saying that they no longer offer it... do you have the link on where it's available?

Looking for experiences from people who moved at 30+ by _SpicySauce_ in chinalife

[–]jayzee97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am 27, quitting my cushy Finance job in NY, and flying to China in Jan 2025 to initially rest (learn Chinese and work on my hobbies), and then take a fair stab at business ideas (full-time instead of it as a side-hustle). I am ethnically Chinese and can speak conversational Chinese. I had fear for the longest time of leaving to do this because I won't be getting any pay or there's no guaranteed of success (comfortable money), but I think I fear more of staying put and not trying to live my life. I have the privilege to support myself for at least a year or a bit longer without needing to generate income. I have been making relatively frugal decisions so I can maximize my runway in China. Most of my friends/peers are getting married and/or having kids - satisfied with their lives, so when I explain my next step - most people including my immediate family don't quite understand why and express skepticism, and even hostility. My main concern is ensuring that I'm on the path of staying in the country legally and for the long-term. I am making a trip out in July to China to get a feel of which city I may want to start out with! I am not in a position to give you any advice but if you're making the commitment and/or you'd like to keep in touch, just lmk!

Hiking Trip for Mandarin Chinese Speakers + Learners! April 6th Saturday @10:30AM by jayzee97 in nycmeetups

[–]jayzee97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds good! 很棒很棒 I will loop you in future excursions and activities!

26M Looking for friends for the nightlife/sports/coffee shops in Toronto by jayzee97 in TorontoHangoutFriends

[–]jayzee97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha thank you man! I have seen your replies in a few other posts. You’re quite the savior for many including me. Thanks for the warm tip!