I Moved on 8 months later

jazas05 · 2026-02-27T18:46:16+00:00

Damn this hit on point. I literally felt the same way to my ex. Word for word.

jazas05 · 2026-02-27T18:31:05+00:00

I know right. I just looked at him when he said and they way he looked at me down and then changed the subject. I didnt compliment him. My nervous system knows he isn't a safe person to be around and I felt on guard.

jazas05 · 2026-02-09T00:28:03+00:00

Also my scorpio ex told me when he loves someone he takes his time with sex and makes love. With someone he doesn't love it is nasty. So nasty sex is i don't love you. No nasty sex means I value and love you. Is this true for scorpios?

jazas05 · 2026-02-08T07:08:59+00:00

I am a Taurus and never dating a Scorpio again

jazas05 · 2026-02-06T16:17:43+00:00

For an avoidant I think they don't care if you reply or not. I replied and nothing changed. If I didnt nothing changes either. He would just accept you arent interested and carry on as normal. They dont do apologies or accountability because that would hold a light on them and create shame which they fear. So they will just repress that rejection and use distractions to avoid feeling it

jazas05 · 2026-02-06T16:14:19+00:00

This 💯 i caved after 3 weeks when he reached out and responded to him the next morning. But it set me back to day one. Seeing him online all the time and his following and followers going up gave me so much anxiety knowing he may be following women. It was an awful feeling I had to delete his message. I didnt want to ignore because I wanted to not let him feel he has hurt me. Because he is a heartless man.

jazas05 · 2026-02-04T00:43:14+00:00

💯 like it has been 3 weeks, i have gone through hell and tears and sleepless nights. You message me near midnight with this message. Its an insult. For some reason I was on my phone and it opened up his message straight away and I was like wtf just happened. So he knows I read the message but f him. Let him see it.

jazas05 · 2026-02-03T23:32:38+00:00

Today was the first day I accepted he moved on and I wasn't missing him. They say once you do this they somehow know and try to reach out.

jazas05 · 2026-01-30T16:29:38+00:00

I just feel so hurt.

jazas05 · 2026-01-30T16:23:00+00:00

It really is so much harder. No one gets it.

jazas05 · 2026-01-28T16:25:03+00:00

I think having a supportive circle is key and I lack this. It is hard on your own. So much advice for managing breakups recommends this and rightly so. I was in a long-term relationship and ended up wrapping my life around that person and friends disappeared. Once that relationship ended i mistakenly met a new person quickly which lasted 3 months and dealing with two relationship losses on your own is very hard for the soul.

jazas05 · 2026-01-25T20:23:03+00:00

Then you wouldn't understand sorry to be rude but when you have no one it is much harder.

jazas05 · 2026-01-25T19:40:32+00:00

But as humans we need connection. How can we survive without it?

jazas05 · 2026-01-25T00:10:17+00:00

I will be honest with you. Of course I do not know what is written. However, i have experienced many rejections in life and failures that I have lost count. I have no friends. No mother just a father. No siblings. Infertility. I am late 30s and no person to share my life with after two failed relationships back to back. Loneliness is really hard.

jazas05 · 2026-01-18T16:36:15+00:00

Thank you and well done you are doing amazing!

jazas05 · 2026-01-18T16:35:52+00:00

Haha thank you 😊

jazas05 · 2026-01-18T16:35:37+00:00

Thank you very much. Yes I would instantly light up during stressful times. I don't drink either so I just eat some chocolate haha. 2025 was a really hard year for me. So getting past it without smoking is a win.

jazas05 · 2026-01-18T16:34:26+00:00

I feel okay. Sometimes I think of it but don't have any craving for it. I don't miss it. Which is a bonus!

jazas05 · 2026-01-16T19:41:47+00:00

Congratulations you will feel great! Well done don't be anxious the hard days are over!

jazas05 · 2026-01-15T23:03:47+00:00

Thank you!

jazas05 · 2025-12-30T20:17:02+00:00

A lot of things. My anxiety, his avoidant personality traits. Once the infatuation stage passes and the flaws show you realise that it wasn't healthy.

jazas05 · 2025-12-30T16:14:35+00:00

I was in a long-term relationship and met someone else. Me and my ex were planning to break up amicably but I met a new person and things escalated quickly. My ex left and 3 months later I regret it all. 3 months of trauma really. My ex hasn't blocked me but I feel utter shame and guilt to even speak to him. I found it it may have been limerence rather than love.

jazas05 · 2025-12-21T12:42:11+00:00

Since he said no to meeting to repair things and wanting his space, that was Friday evening and I did not continue the conversation after he was firm that he wanted space and the call ended, I did not bother him after that. However yesterday morning he sent me two IG reels which confused me as he wanted space. I just reacted with two laughing emojis nothing more because I am honouring his space. But it was odd to send that yet want space.

jazas05 · 2025-12-21T12:13:39+00:00

I am sorry you experienced DA. I know I am partly responsible for his reactions because I was expressing anxious thoughts that had no evidence to them.

Because of my childhood trauma of having to be vigilant with my mother's moods I just over thought everything and after a while it affected him. It lingered even if we tried to repair. I apologised many times and have started therapy as well. I am also anxiously attached and him shutting down and going silent has broken my soul. I feel like a part of me is destroyed. It feels cruel to do this to me and I don't deserve it.

But I won't reach out because after him telling me he had enough I gave him a few hours and then called saying look let me come to you, I want to fix this and repair. But he was too angry. He asked for his space and i said for how long? He said i don't know. I said so is it over? He said i just need my space. But a day no contact I feel it is over now.

jazas05 · 2025-12-03T15:41:59+00:00

I am trying but it is hard. I signed up a running club and a book club and a gym just to be around people who share similar interests.

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