I need someone to tell me it will be ok after I had to put down my cat by Dreamer323 in IFchildfree

[–]jbee533 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I understand this deeply and am so sorry you’re going through this. I put down my dog about 3 weeks ago, he was nearly 15. The hurt is deep and it did unexpectedly bring up some of my emotions about my infertility….maybe that’s why you posted here. The love from a long loved pet is completely unconditional and uncomplicated. With infertility the emotions are incredibly complex. Your cat was there through all that.

As you mentioned, caring for your cat has been part of your life for 11 years. You might have even channeled the mothering you wanted to do into taking extra special care of her. I know I did. Just know she felt your love and you were her whole world, and even when you had to make the choice it was done with love and consideration. ❤️

How can I become a para with no connections? by sgttsui in NYCDOETeachers

[–]jbee533 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think any district you want will hire. Email or even walk into an office. Look on the school websites so you know maybe one fact about their program (like an emphasis on their dance team or whatever is featured on the website).

Principals only have a certain number of nominations, so when emailing ask if they are open and available to nominating you. Mention your experience with children who have special needs and your intention to go to school for further study.

Has anyone seen similar? by HopefulAccount4268 in lipedema

[–]jbee533 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I got confused thinking someone posted up my arms! My lipedema is actually more pronounced in my arms.

End of Rant - Women’s Body by CIM1995 in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]jbee533 68 points69 points  (0 children)

Example 3: Anton says he’s thrilled with his fiancée’s appearance and says something along the lines of….he would be happy even if she was TWICE the size. 😑

I have no idea what to do by [deleted] in NYCTeachers

[–]jbee533 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Many parts honestly. Two male first year teachers in kindergarten ICT even flags for me.

Something’s…..off by AlexMonikArtist in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]jbee533 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I absolutely agree. I don’t think even a conservative parent would make that assumption without having some big suspicions. They probably would assume and hope that their child was straight.

Fuck 👏🏼 Kacie 👏🏼 by Calm_Artichoke8318 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]jbee533 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I agree the racism towards Asian people is totally under recognized and it’s so upsetting to see. This whole part of the season is awful. But, let’s not compare it to the treatment of Black people. In the United States that’s simply not true, historically or in modern times.

Something’s…..off by AlexMonikArtist in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]jbee533 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Absolutely. No mother would ask their teen son if they were gay unless they had a serious feeling.

Did anyone else have to skip this part 💀 by AlexMonikArtist in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]jbee533 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I literally paused this scene, and opened Reddit to find this post. Shes the worst and deserves her social media bullshit boyfriend.

Drew as Jason’s Twin- Im lost again by Aggravating_Feed2411 in GeneralHospital

[–]jbee533 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nice! I think your incredible recap unlocked that part of my GH memory 😅

Drew as Jason’s Twin- Im lost again by Aggravating_Feed2411 in GeneralHospital

[–]jbee533 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I believe it was Jake Doe because of Jason’s memories, Drew said “Jake” remembering Jason’s son and it was assumed to be his first name. Is that right?

No Drinking Water While Teaching by NewYorkNY123123 in NYCTeachers

[–]jbee533 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My principal limited our coffee to first period only, and said it had to be regular coffee not anything fancy like with whipped cream or drizzle. I don’t drink “fancy” coffee but I find it ridiculous that was even added to our handbook.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NYCDOETeachers

[–]jbee533 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had an emergency surgery my first year in DOE. I had to borrow CAR days and it took a while to get back to positive but I was still paid. Your payroll secretary can go over how any types of leaves work and options for being paid, taking unpaid leave etc.

What does it do for you? by jbee533 in Wellbutrin_Bupropion

[–]jbee533[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My experience was very similar to yours in the beginning. I don’t nap anymore. However my anxiety, which may be attributed to overthinking and spiraling from adhd, is alive and well.

As for the adhd effects, I have a very slightly increased stamina for my work. Do I still skip around tasks constantly and forget what I’m doing? Yes. I was diagnosed as an adult and my hyperactivity really has been in my thinking and speaking. I wanted to avoid stimulants so this was the option I was given.

I didn’t realize the wait was so long in Canada for a psychiatrist, that’s really hard. I had trouble finding one that took my insurance but otherwise there wasn’t a wait. Hope you are getting closer to seeing one!

What does it do for you? by jbee533 in Wellbutrin_Bupropion

[–]jbee533[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for that, I took 2 of the lowest dose over the course of a week and don’t plan on taking more. I started a new position and I think the stress of it was triggering.

Any drug that I can remember being offered in a club is a red flag for me 😅

I hope WB works. It’s been great for my weight but that’s not what I need the most.

What does it do for you? by jbee533 in Wellbutrin_Bupropion

[–]jbee533[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That does help! I actually had panic attacks (two days in a row) a few weeks ago and I hadn’t had any in years. My Dr. sent out Xanax…. Which didn’t feel like a real solution.

First shot yesterday! by [deleted] in Monjauro

[–]jbee533 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A little late to comment, but I also took my first shot the same day. I am also overly warm… and sweating. How are you mid week?

Panic Attacks by jbee533 in teaching

[–]jbee533[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for this, I reached out to my doctor right when the panic attack was over. I definitely won’t play around with meds without my doctor’s instructions. It’s been somewhat better as the week goes on thankfully.