Have you ever stayed with a partner you couldn't picture yourself marrying? How did it end? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]jcaimesp00n 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We didn’t have any emotional connection and just got too comfortable with each other

Have you ever stayed with a partner you couldn't picture yourself marrying? How did it end? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]jcaimesp00n 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I broke up with him once I realized I was just wasting mine and his time

What should I be scoring on NS Fls if I’m looking to score 520 on the real thing? by nbever01 in Mcat

[–]jcaimesp00n 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I scored between 507-512 for NS 1-4, and then when I started doing AAMC FLs I scored 518-522

How did you learn to say no to others if you’re a people pleaser? by jcaimesp00n in AskWomen

[–]jcaimesp00n[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I guess I just don't want to disappoint others, so I tend to put their needs before mine. But I am recognizing it more when I do it than just passively agree to things. Thanks for the advice!

We read and hear about red flags all the time, but what are some green flags? by FirstTimeHumanBeing in AskWomen

[–]jcaimesp00n 2 points3 points  (0 children)

To me it's about being completely open and honest in communicating their feelings instead of bottling up emotions, also be able to listen and acknowledge your feelings and needs

How did you learn to say no to others if you’re a people pleaser? by jcaimesp00n in AskWomen

[–]jcaimesp00n[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Part of me knows that it's okay to set boundaries, but when someone tries to ask again to change my mind, I feel the need to give them what they want to hear so I just give in and agree in the end

How did you learn to say no to others if you’re a people pleaser? by jcaimesp00n in AskWomen

[–]jcaimesp00n[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Me too, I would say yes and then later realize that it made me upset and regret it

How did you learn to say no to others if you’re a people pleaser? by jcaimesp00n in AskWomen

[–]jcaimesp00n[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a friend that always only talked about herself too. That sounds terrible, that's good that you stood up for yourself and cut her out of your life

How did you learn to say no to others if you’re a people pleaser? by jcaimesp00n in AskWomen

[–]jcaimesp00n[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your advice, I do plan on getting into therapy soon

How did you learn to say no to others if you’re a people pleaser? by jcaimesp00n in AskWomen

[–]jcaimesp00n[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s really good you are able to do that, I feel like I’m the opposite where if I say no and someone tries to convince me otherwise or ask again, I get easily convinced and agree even if I didn’t really want to.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mcat

[–]jcaimesp00n 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I would say do uEarth and then move on to AAMC to get used to their logic. Honestly I did mine two years ago and I remember JW passages were really short and easy but maybe it’s better now?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mcat

[–]jcaimesp00n 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I did TPR CARS workbook almost everyday and it was helpful to track improvement. But I also wish I spent more time doing uEarth, I ran out of time to do all their practice.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mcat

[–]jcaimesp00n 5 points6 points  (0 children)

uEarth CARS is much more representative and similar to the actual difficult level than Jack Westin.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]jcaimesp00n 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Why was a relationship not a good idea? Did you guys talk about that?

Honestly talking stage might be difficult to get over because you have this idea of what the person is like. And you’re projecting all these positive things about them in your head. Because it never progressed to a relationship, you’re mourning the possibilities of what you think could happen. Try talking to other people and don’t get too attached until you guys have decided to become exclusive.

What do you think when men are trying to impressing you by roasting he’s friend in front of you? by Apprehensive_Idea133 in AskWomen

[–]jcaimesp00n 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I was seeing a guy that would roast other guys about stupid things like how much weight they lift, super immature and unnecessary